August 2015 Moms

Goodbye, and thank you

I'm in the hospital, waiting to go into surgery in an hour or so. My pregnancy is ectopic, in the left tube.

I am heartbroken, devastated, angry, and exhausted. I feel cosmically beat up right now. For the past two weeks, things have continually gone wrong and I fought to stay optimistic but here we are. I am just praying that they can save my tube; they say they'll try. Merry fucking Christmas, right?

Thank you, ladies, for being supportive and kind and funny. I will lurk around to see your beautiful babies grow, and I can only hope that if I'm lucky enough to conceive again, my new BMB is as awesome as you all have been.
Mommy to Teddy (2), born May 14, 2012

Americans living in the Middle of Nowhere, Germany

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  • Oh no i am so sorry. Prayers for a safe surgery and speedy recovery.
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  • I am so very sorry. FX that they are able to save your tube. ((Hugs))

    Me: 34; DH: 38; SD: 9
    TTC #1 since November 2013

    BFP #1: 2/4/14--EDD 10/14/14--CP 2/8/14

    BFP #2: 3/1/14--EDD 11/15/14--MMC at 12w6d (baby stopped developing at 11w4d)
    D&C 5/13/14; Retained Tissue Found: Cytotec 5/30/14; 2nd D&C 6/20/14

    BFP #3: 12/13/14--EDD 8/27/15--MMC at 7 weeks (no fetal pole and measuring 1 1/2 weeks behind)--Cytotec 1/9/15

    January 2015: Off to RE for RPL testing

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  • I'm so sorry.


    TTC#1 for 19 months with PCOS and MFI IUI#3 + injectables = BFP!!!!  Beta#1-134(13dpiui) Beta #2-392(15dpiui) 
    #1 born December 2011
    TTC#2 - Beta #1 -51@10dpo Beta#2 -1353 @16dpo
    #2 born May 2013
    TTC # 3 June 2014 BFP 12-1-14
    #3 born August 2015 
    #4!!!!!!! due June 2017 
  • I'm so sorry, I hope you have a successful surgery and heal quickly
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. Many T&Ps for a safe surgery and speedy recovery! Be kind to yourself. Many positive vibes being sent your way.

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

  • Aw Honey! Lots of hugs sent your way. Wishing you a speedy recovery and that the universe backs off with the bad. You've earned an easy ride, for the next go-round.
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  • I just went theought that and they did have to remove my left tube. My surgery was in September. I was feeling the same way as you. I thought it would never happen again for me especially with my age. I am 40. Well, i found out 2 weeks ago that i am pregnant again and so far so go! I go back again on the 29th for a 7 week ultrasound. Dont lose hope. I almost did.
  • Oh no, I'm so, so sorry. Sending many positive thoughts for a safe surgery and full recovery.
  • Sorry for you and hope the surgery goes well. My cousin is pregnant with her second child after losing a tube the first time she got pregnant, so there's a little hope for the worst car scenario! FX for no loss though!
  • So sorry for your loss. Much love your way!
  • I'm so sorry.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. My T&Ps are with you, I hope the surgery goes well, and they are able to save your tube. I hope your recovery is smooth. Be kind to yourself.
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  • I'm so, so sorry. I hope your surgery and recovery go smoothly. Be kind to yourself in the coming weeks and months - however you feel is okay, there's no wrong way to grieve.
    ~ K.

    PCOS, EDS III, low progesterone. Six early losses (5-8 weeks,) 1 twin loss. Surprise natural BFP 2014-12-17
    Ectopic dx and MTX 2015-01-02.
  • I'm so sorry. Good luck with your surgery and I hope you heal fast. Hugs to you! Be gentle with yourself.

    Me: 28 
    DH: 34

    IUD out 8/29/13 and TTC since then.
    BFP 12/29/13
    Bleeding 1/17/14 with LO showing 10 days smaller.
    NMC 1/26/14

    Continued trying every month. Began seeing RE 7/2014.

    12/2/14 got first Rx for Clomid for following cycle.
    12/3/14 BFP!!!
    No heartbeat at 8w4d. D&C scheduled for Jan 7, 14 

  • I'm so very sorry about your loss. FX for a successful surgery and a speedy, easy recovery. Many thoughts and prayers for you! Please be kind to yourself and take care.
    Me: 29 ~ DH: 27
    Married: 04/25/14
    TTC #1 Since September 2014
    BFP 12.13.14 -- EDD 08.28.15

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  • I am so sorry. I hope you have a speedy recovery.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. :( I hope the surgery goes smoothly and that your tube can be saved. Please keep us posted.

    TTC since June 2009
    BFP #1 2/22/10 M/C 6w2d
    BFP #2 October 2010 CP
    BFP #3 1/11/11 M/C 8w5d
    IUI #1 Aug 2011= BFN
    IUI #2= BFP #4 9/18/11 missed M/C, D&C 10/18/11
    IUIs #3&4 = BFN
    IVF #1 May 2012 = BFP! Twins!!

    Fraternal twins born Feb. 2013

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  • I'm so sorry. Wishing you the best for your surgery.
  • So sorry for your loss.  I hope for a smooth surgery and a quick recovery.  Take care of yourself.

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  • Oh man.. I'm so sorry.
  • I am so sorry.  I hope your surgery goes well and that you are back home soon.
    Married 9/23/11
    BFP #1   9/7/14 MC confirmed 9/17/14
    BFP #2  11/20/14   EDD 8/4/15
    Baby girl born 7/22/15
    BFP #3 5/6/17  EDD 1/19/18
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope your surgery goes well. Take care. (((( lots of hugs ))))) stay strong.
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    ME: 30, DH: 30
    Love: 2/11/04  Marriage: 5/29/11

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    TTC #1: 6/1/14
    BFP: 11/25/14  EDD: 8/5/15

  • I'm so sorry, last Christmas/New Years I had an ectopic. Mine burst and I lost my tube, I pray this doesn't happen to you. Many ((hugs)) and I hope you recover fast. 

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

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  • I am so very sorry.
    Praying this is our take home baby. STICK TURKEY Mommy will miss you everyday my beautiful angel. We love you Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers M/C on 1/05/11 at 11 weeks.
  • I'm so sorry. Have a speedy recovery and stay strong.
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    My 2 boys ages 8 & 10
    BFP#3 EDD 8/19/2015
    mc @ 7wks 4/2014

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  • I'm so sorry to hear about this. Hopefully you can find some peace soon. I am praying your surgery goes well, and please allow yourself some time to heal. I cannot even imagine the pain you're feeling. [[hugs]]
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  • So sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself.
  • I am so very sorry for your loss. I am wishing you a speedy recovery.
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    DS#2 5/11/13
    #3 EDD 8/7/15
  • I'm so sorry. Thinking about you today.
  • I am so sorry. I hope surgery goes smoothly and they can save your tube.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • Oh I'm so sorry. Prayers for you and that your surgery goes well.
    Married my Best Friend 4/16/11
    Started TTC 10/12
    BFP 10/16/13, Due June 27, 2014. PPROM at 21 weeks. Our baby girl McKenzie was born and passed on Feb 17, 2014
    Mommy and Daddy love you so much baby girl. We will never forget you.

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  • I am so sorry.
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  • I'm very sorry to read that. I hope they can save your tube. T&P for you and hoping the recovery goes smooth. Never loose faith. Hugs.
  • I"m so sorry you're dealing with this. I had an ectopic in my left tube in June 2013. They were able to save my tube, but I found out a year later that it's not open. 

     Ectopics are scary, and surgery is no fun. Please take care of yourself and get the rest you need.



     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

  • I'm sorry for your loss.  :(  Hope they are able to save your tube.
  • I'm so sorry. I hope your surgery goes well. Thinking of you today.
    August 2015 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl

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    *BFP #1 9/10/11 Natural m/c 11/1/11 at 11 weeks, 5 days*
    *Diagnosed as unexplained infertility*
    *BFP #2 12/6/14 after IUI#2 Hopeful! EDD 8/14/15*

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  • I am so sorry! Fingers crossed for a successful surgery and recovery.
  • I'm so sorry!!
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