Just curious. I find myself asking the question of "do people recognize my s/n?" "Am I considered part of this community?" etc.
Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011 TTC since 2012 BFP#1~ EDD: 06/21/2014 ~ TFMR --Holoprosencephaly Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks.We miss our baby girl "J" My Chart
CPW: How do you view your activity here in TTCAL? 84 votes
Super active member (daily posts, respond daily, check-ins leader, etc)
I consider myself an active member (I check in every week day, multiple times, and respond to multiple posts a day) but I checked respond more than post.
@kittymeowbark, I totally feel the same way you do about being recognized, etc.
I went with super active. I briefly stepped back from the board the last couple months, and dropped the two check-ins that I lead, but, over the past two plus years, super active describes my presence here perfectly. Heck, the majority of my 9000+ posts have occurred on this board which ends up being an average of around 12 posts a day.
I'm still finding a balance. I wish I could respond more than I currently do, but i am working off the mobile site and it's not super conducive to a lot of activity. I wish I could grow a set and just download the app, but I have a hard time with the principle of downloading something meant for pg women when I'm not a part of their party. I know, I have issues. Sigh.
started TTC 3/2014 & got hitched 4/2014
husbter's a 38 y/o smarty pants phD/me? a 27 y/o cat lady extraordinaire
& we're missing our darling barnacles:
May 2014 loss @ 9 weeks, MMC, no hb found at first appointment | edd dec 4 2014
October 2014 loss @ 12 weeks, MMC measuring 10w after hearing hb @ 8w | edd apr 15, 2015
I hit "respond more than post." I don't tend to start discussions too often, but I do consider myself fairly active as I'm on here most weekdays. I also sometimes wonder if the ladies on here recognize my sn.
"Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover"
I put respond more than post. I haven't started a discussion because I never know what to say lol. I agree with @linkloveszelda26, I love my life but it's pretty boring lol. I do hope that I am a benefit to this community and can consider myself a member.
Eh, I'm mixed on this one. I haven't been posting much int he past 2 weeks due to a combination of being busy IRL and waiting for things to "cool down" after recent heated topics. But I am to the point where DH gets a little exasperated with how much time I spend here.
BFP #1 12/19/13 We lost our Fenix 7/31/14 at 36 weeks due to torn umbilical cord
I also put respond more than post. I occasionally start posts but respond regularly, usually multiple times a day. Hmm, I'm starting to worry about my internet usage!
Me: 32 DH: 32
Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
Off BC 1/2013
TTC (actively) since 5/2013
5/2014 started testing with RE, me: HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)
I respond more than I post for sure. I'd like to post more but in my current state, supporting is very theraputic for me and good for the group, I think :x
Re: CPW: How do you view your activity here in TTCAL?
I consider myself an active member (I check in every week day, multiple times, and respond to multiple posts a day) but I checked respond more than post.
@kittymeowbark, I totally feel the same way you do about being recognized, etc.
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
My Ovulation Chart
Me:21 Hubs:23
Married 5/19/12
BFP#1: 6/6/12 EDD: 2/8/13 DS: 2/11/13
BFP#2: 8/18/14 EDD: 4/25/15 MC: 5wks 5days
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