TTC After a Loss

CPW: How do you view your activity here in TTCAL?

kittymeowbarkkittymeowbark member
edited December 2014 in TTC After a Loss
Just curious. I find myself asking the question of "do people recognize my s/n?" "Am I considered part of this community?" etc.
Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
TTC since 2012
BFP#1EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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CPW: How do you view your activity here in TTCAL? 84 votes

Super active member (daily posts, respond daily, check-ins leader, etc)
16% 14 votes
Active member (posts and responds frequently)
29% 25 votes
Respond more than post
39% 33 votes
Only respond in check-ins
1% 1 vote
Just welcome people who intro
1% 1 vote
Lurke
5% 5 votes
SS
5% 5 votes

Re: CPW: How do you view your activity here in TTCAL?

  • I put respond more than post (if I don't take into consideration my two recent AW threads :(  ) . I'd like to start posting more stuff though! 
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • I consider myself an active member (I check in every week day, multiple times, and respond to multiple posts a day) but I checked respond more than post.

    @kittymeowbark, I totally feel the same way you do about being recognized, etc. 

                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • I put respond more than post. I actively give support though and hope to become even more involved in this awesome community.
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • I wonder the same thing, though apparently I'm more ubiquitous than I feel lol
    Momma to 3 angels and two amazing children
    F born June 2018
    W born September 2020
    #3 due November 2022
  • I'd say super active, though a little less over the past month with my job change and benched status.
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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • I put respond more than post, but I'm trying to post more. I just don't want to turn into an AW  :heart_eyes:
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    I'll be at a new place providing support. 


  • I also put respond more than post.
    BFP #1: 5-14-2010, DD born 1-22-2011
    BFP #2: 4-20-2012, Natural MC 5-1-2012
    BFP #3: 7-19-2012, DS born 3-27-2013
    BFP #4: 9-13-2014, MMC discovered 10-27-14 at 10w, d&c on 11-6-14 

  • LURKE.... haven't even intro'd yet... but I LOVE cliquey polls!!!!

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    BFP#1 11/1/14, EDD 7/15/15, 
    MM/C (blighted ovum) 12/2/14 at 8 wks, D&C 12/5/14
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  • I respond more than post but i hope that people recognize me as a member of the community who gives support.


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    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

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  • I have a problem with reading before voting all the way- I put "Active" but I definitely respond more than post. Sorry to skew the data. 
     Me: 30, DH: 30. Dating since 2007- Married: 5/18/13. 
    BFP: 9/3/14, Found out we had triplets 10/10/14,  EDD: 5/14/15, Confirmed MMC: 10/14/14. D&C: 10/16/14.
    Formerly TashaCN and wonderigwhatmyfutureholds

    All AL welcome. 
  • I'm still finding a balance. I wish I could respond more than I currently do, but i am working off the mobile site and it's not super conducive to a lot of activity. I wish I could grow a set and just download the app, but I have a hard time with the principle of downloading something meant for pg women when I'm not a part of their party. I know, I have issues. Sigh.
    started TTC 3/2014 & got hitched 4/2014
    husbter's a 38 y/o smarty pants phD/me? a 27 y/o cat lady extraordinaire
    & we're missing our darling barnacles:
    May 2014 loss @ 9 weeks, MMC, no hb found at first appointment | edd dec 4 2014
    October 2014 loss @ 12 weeks, MMC measuring 10w after hearing hb @ 8w | edd apr 15, 2015
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  • I hit "respond more than post." I don't tend to start discussions too often, but I do consider myself fairly active as I'm on here most weekdays. I also sometimes wonder if the ladies on here recognize my sn. 

    I recognize you, @kittymeowbark and @welly01!
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


  • I put respond more than post. I haven't started a discussion because I never know what to say lol. I agree with @linkloveszelda26‌, I love my life but it's pretty boring lol. I do hope that I am a benefit to this community and can consider myself a member.
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
  • Eh, I'm mixed on this one. I haven't been posting much int he past 2 weeks due to a combination of being busy IRL and waiting for things to "cool down" after recent heated topics. But I am to the point where DH gets a little exasperated with how much time I spend here.  
    BFP #1 12/19/13 We lost our Fenix 7/31/14 at 36 weeks due to torn umbilical cord
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  • I put respond more than post. I'm still trying to find balance.

    Me:21 Hubs:23

    Married 5/19/12

    BFP#1: 6/6/12 EDD: 2/8/13 DS: 2/11/13

    BFP#2: 8/18/14  EDD: 4/25/15 MC: 5wks 5days

    Holding out hope our firefly will light up our world again!

     

     

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  • I also put respond more than post. I occasionally start posts but respond regularly, usually multiple times a day. Hmm, I'm starting to worry about my internet usage!
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

  • I respond more than I post for sure. I'd like to post more but in my current state, supporting is very theraputic for me and good for the group, I think  :x
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    Married my partner in crime 06/11/11
    DH: 29, Me: 28
    Started TTC 10/01/2013
    BFP#1: 03/05/14 | EDD: 11/11/14 | MC: 04/10/14 | D&C 05/01/14 [Molar]
    BFP#2: 10/15/14 | EDD: 06/25/14 | MC: 12/02/14 | D&C 12/04/14 [MMC]
    Current Status: RE appt 01/20/15 & Cleared to TTC
    Plan: Baby Aspirin, More (raw) folate, PNP, Iron, diet
    DX: MTHFR hetero C677T, ANA+ Homogeneous, Anemia. Ige sensitivities: gluten, egg, dairy
    All AL Welcome<3
    “Once you are real you can't become unreal again. It lasts for always.”
    We will never forgot our angels<3


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