DS1 will be 11 days shy of 3 when DS2 is born and is already exhibiting signs of jealousy. EX: we went to lunch yesterday with my SIL and FIL and SIL has a 5 month old. When FIL held our nephew DS all of a sudden wanted to sit by Grandpa and started saying "My Gramdpa, my grandpa". So I took my nephew from my FIL and about 90 seconds later, DS scooted back over to me and started saying "My mommy, my mommy". He's done this when I hold my other friend's babies too--so not a one time thing.
While I think it is sweet and I'm so happy he loves me this much, I am a little concerned about how he will react when we bring the new baby home as I will obviously not be able to just hand the new baby to someone. I know this is "the age", I was just seeing if anyone had any ideas or did anything with their kids to prep them for the arrival of a new baby (I mean people do this for pets so why wouldn't we do it for the older siblings).
TIA!
Re: STM: Helping prep older child for new baby
We've been reading him "new baby" books a lot. The Little Critter one is a good one, because it's about how cool it is to be a big brother.
We also talk a lot about sharing. What he wants to "give" to the new baby (like his old clothes and toys) and what he wants to "keep" (like the little bedside table we were going to move to the new baby's room, but we'll let him have it and get a new one) so he doesn't feel like the baby's taking things from him. And we've talked to him about how he has "special" toys the baby can't play with (like his trains which are just for big boys).