My daughter started doing this and we switched to pull ups that way there is no tabs to pull off. Worked well till we started potty training then it was back to taking them off in bed but we did find that she lost interest after a week or so since it was more work to take off the pullups.
Another way to apply the tape method is instead of putting it on the diaper, put it across the chest area and having the ends meet in their back where their hands can't reach. Not tight because you still want that give for breathing. You can do this on the zipper nighties. Another way is to put a onesie on and tape the snaps all the way around. Hope this helps.
Re: Taking their diapers off
Baby #1 7/16/10
Baby #2 11/14/12
Baby #3 12/11/14
Baby #4 3/30/17
Baby #5 2/28/19
Baby #6 Miscarriage
Baby #7 7/3/22
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