DH was offered and accepted a position the town we grew up in; same company just a new location and job title. We are very excited to be able to raise LO in our hometown closer to friends and family. However we need to move as soon as possible, so we have been scrambling to get our house ready to list. We think we'll be able to have it on the market by Dec 1st, I know that most people aren't looking to buy/ move over the holidays but we don't have many other options.
My question is, would you ladies decorate at all for Christmas? I know we can't do the normal full out Christmas tree and everything, but would things like a wreath on the front door, maybe seasonal candles- stuff like that, make the house look more welcoming or is that just clutter that will distract from the house?
I'm a little bummed out that I can't go all out for LOs first Christmas, I know he won't remember and it's not a big deal in the long run just a bummer.
Thank you in advance for your insight!
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Re: Question about selling a house over the holidays
We already had tree up and decorations up by that point. Our real estate agent did not mention any issues with the decorations. If they had, we would have adjusted.
We had the house listed and ready for viewing by Dec 23. Viewings Dec 24 (all before noon) then 26 & 27. Offer accepted on Dec 28. Apparently someone really wanted our house or at least into the neighbourhood, so it was dealt with quickly. Only problem was that closing wasn't until May 3.
Let your agent guide you on that, however, you know your neighbourhood. If most people decorate and you don't, your house will look like the sad little house.
And congrats on the new job!
There really isn't a good place for a tree in our house, that doesn't required moving a lot of furniture anyway, so I think we'll skip that. But I like the idea of some decorations adding a fairly neutral but not to personal homey touch.
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Me 28 DH 32
TTC naturally 05/2011-10/2012= All BFNs
Nov 2012 Jan 2013 Clomid= BFN
IVF #1 scheduled for April 2013 Stims started 04/09 ER 04/19/2013- 26 Retrieved and 24 Fertilized 3 day Fert Report- 10 are 8 cell ET cancelled-all embryos arrested at day 3
IVF #2 scheduled for June 2013 -Transferred 1 day 5 Blast
07/04/2013 HPT- BFP! Beta 10dp5dt-35Beta 12dp5dt-82 Ultrasound 6 weeks 4 days- Heart rate 123bpm!!
Team Green turned Team BLUE!!!
Baby M born premature at 33 weeks 5 days, he spent 22 days in the NICU before coming home!
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It made me a bit nervous that a few of you said you always check out where a tree would go when you look at houses cause there just isn't a good place here, and I have a feeling that will be on the buyers mind even more with the timing.:-(
***************************************Child mentioned********************************************
Me 28 DH 32
TTC naturally 05/2011-10/2012= All BFNs
Nov 2012 Jan 2013 Clomid= BFN
IVF #1 scheduled for April 2013 Stims started 04/09 ER 04/19/2013- 26 Retrieved and 24 Fertilized 3 day Fert Report- 10 are 8 cell ET cancelled-all embryos arrested at day 3
IVF #2 scheduled for June 2013 -Transferred 1 day 5 Blast
07/04/2013 HPT- BFP! Beta 10dp5dt-35Beta 12dp5dt-82 Ultrasound 6 weeks 4 days- Heart rate 123bpm!!
Team Green turned Team BLUE!!!
Baby M born premature at 33 weeks 5 days, he spent 22 days in the NICU before coming home!
I agree with PP's - decorations, but very generic and minimal. lights lights lights! it's all about lighting. get as much of your stuff/furniture out of the space as you can, clean it spotless, and put up a wreath. a few nice candleholders with large candles here and there (think kitchen counter, island, bathroom vanity).
I wouldn't do a tree, any large decorations, or have wires/cords anywhere.