My son is 4.5 years old I'm getting baby fever, but I am on the fence. My husband would love to have another baby, but me I'm not so sure.
-I'm only 24 and though established in my career I often dream of starting my own business (DH by the way is 28)
-Emotional stress on the marriage, DS still throws a fit when its bedtime and often wakes up during the night at least one time.
-Though we have a three bedroom house, I would love to get a bigger house.
-I love my me time and our date nights and with one its so much easier to find a babysitter.
-Kids are expensive. Though we could afford another child we might not be able to take family vacations like we do now.
**Reasons to have another child:
-My son would have someone to grow up with, some one to play with, and someone to always have his back.
-When me and DH are dead and gone, DH will not have to make hard decisions alone or go through it alone.
-With more than one kid their are more chances to be a grandma one day :P
-My sister and I are 10 years apart and have never been close and I've always wanted a relationship with her.
Any advice would be appreciated. What are the pros and cons of having one child versus two? TIA!
Re: Moms of two or more, I need advice
It's ok if you don't want another or don't want another yet. I think a better list would be things you would ideally like accomplished before having another child and seeing how that list looks. If it's really long then maybe it's not right. Good luck.