I'm just moving over from the FEB 15 birth month board. My daughter was stillborn at 22 weeks gestation on October 7th. My husband and I had been ttc for 6 years, and have been through the ringer with fertility treatments. We had been completely blindsided when we found out we had lost her at a re-do of our anatomy scan. The next two days were a nightmarish blur, and now three weeks later the funeral is over. Most of the flowers have died, and I can still hardly get out of bed. Today I finally had the courage to come to this board looking to you ladies for a bit of hope, and maybe some help picking up the pieces.
I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. The pain you're going through is indescribable and it's going to take a long time to feel relatively "normal". Just know that you have a great support system here if you need to cry, vent, or just talk. Just know that every single emotion you have is ok to have. Everyone mourns differently and you're not alone. Big hugs to you and your DH.
I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs) You are more than welcome here, just know there is also a board "Loss" that you might want to go to as well.
Me: 31 DH: 36 Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06 BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks
I am so sorry to hear your story. I am glad you found your way here to at least talk about it. It doesn't make all the pain go away but it does help to have support of others that have gone through similiar situations. Many hugs to you.
I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site.
I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Sometimes life just seems so cruel and there are no explanations for why these things happen. Please be kind to yourself and know that this is a wonderful group of women. ((Hugs))
Re: Intro
Me: 31 DH: 36
Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks
My Chart
::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy
Me:36, DH:37
DS born 11/2012
BFP 7/26/14, Missed M/C at 8 weeks, discovered at 10 wks, 6 days, D&C 9/22/14, Dx: Partial molar pregnancy