July 2014 Moms

For some reason my husband thinks...

that he still has the weekends to do whatever he wants... No that's not how it works. Because you are here I now now have a few minutes to do the following: eat, shower, put away MY laundry, and dry/flat iron my crazy mop of hair (for the sole purpose of not having to wash it for a week) these activities take (at most) 2 hours. So I'm sorry that you can't go to the gym before the GD soccer game. DVR it and shut up.

Ok I think I'm ok now. Even though I've already yelled these things at him he's not listening and just keeps saying "stop yelling and calm down, fine go flat iron your hair, geez you sound crazy"

I AM NOT CRAZY!!

Re: For some reason my husband thinks...

  • I can totally relate.
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  • pjaimealpjaimeal member
    edited October 2014
    Same here. DH is playing video games as we speak. We had a "conversation" about having his parents over this weekend and I had to explain to him that it isn't as easy as just letting them know a good time to come over. Plus, it is my last weekend before I have to go to work. So I really just want to relax and enjoy my time with LO (and apparently Bump it up). What seemed to work was attempting to relate to him by comparing it to not being appreciated at work (he doesn't fully understand what goes in to caring for LO all day) and then your boss just throwing a project on his desk last minute and expecting it to be easy (scheduling a visit around naps, feedings, and on top of all of that having to "clean" the house for his parents to come over). Hey, it may have been a bit of a stretch on my part but at least I got him to tell his parents that this weekend wasn't good for visits! 

    PS. I am not implying that visits are always inconvenient and of course I will always fit them in when it is needed. I mainly wanted him to understand the dynamics involved and the reason why this weekend wasn't ideal.

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  • Yup, same here! I finally went to have my hair colored yesterday since he's off fridays and he told me "not too take too long" really?? I made sure I took my time and didn't rush...he survived.
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  • I needed to go shopping this past weekend to get some clothes for me and when I told DH that I needed to go shopping alone he asked why they couldn't come? The last thing I want to deal with on a Saturday is navigating a mall with a 4 month old and having to leave when she gets fussy. 
  • DH kept the toddler & 4 month old for basically a full day while I did a 5K & then went to a wedding with my mom. When I returned he said "I don't know how you do it every day."
    It wasn't a strategy to make him understand BUT it totally worked in my favor! **WINNING**


        




     

  • My DH thinks the 1 hour he takes ds at night during the week is more than enough of a break for me. He "needs his free time" since he goes to work and I have sooo much free time during the day.
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  • Just don't do anything unless it is strictly baby care related for a couple days. Words don't work. Seeing what looks like a tornado hit the house does. Then go away for a few hours while he starts to repair the damages. Lol.
  • Nichole8787Nichole8787 member
    edited November 2014
    Lately dh has had the perfect knack for making me feel unappreciated. I'm so over it....He's been a real asshole. I'm to tired to argue wHich is always what happens when I try to explain how irritated I am
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  • The line that gets me is "your not doing enough" after a stressful day at work and not getting as much milk as I need (DS drinks 16oz during daycare). I already drink 8-12 glasses of water and pump 4 times a day. I'm pretty sure guys would fail at breastfeeding.
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