*****Would You Rather...*****

stoneycakes

This poll brought to you from the Would You Rather game.

Into+the+Kitty

Before. I answer, is there any chance you're using this information against me? Are you a catfish? O.o

stoneycakes

Into+the+Kitty said:

Before. I answer, is there any chance you're using this information against me? Are you a catfish? O.o

Yes.  I have obviously crafted this question in order to determine your SS and CC #s.

TJ1979

Wow, only 1 super vain person?

bumpuser5078523

Great (stolen) question!

I would rather they thought he was ugly. Brains > Beauty.

countrycotton

You obviously has never seen DH!

Into+the+Kitty

countrycotton said:

You obviously has never seen DH!

He'a really hideous, huh? Bummer.

countrycotton

Yep, now keep your hands off of him. He's ALL MINE.

Mandmeesh

TJ1979 said:

Wow, only 1 super vain person?

it's you, isn't it?

nevertune

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

nevertune

I'd like to add that it probably wouldn't have been so bad with the dumb guy if he just knew he was dumb and accepted it, but he didn't. He'd argue the stupidest points and just look even dumber. It was so embarrassing. He would try to use big words, but didn't use them correctly. It was very confusing to follow a conversation. When you'd ask him questions about what he was talking about, he'd treat you like you were too stupid to know what he meant without him having to dumb it down for you. The one I remember the most was using the word "frugal" to mean "pointless." And can anyone explain what a "unique sensibility" might feel like? Because I'm pretty sure he thought it felt like pride, or maybe acceptance. It was hard to tell from context clues.

Sgriff1

I'd rather be the hot one in the marriage anyway.

Bigboneded

Id rather everyone think he's ugly, because if I don't- then who cares what they think? But if they all think he's dumb, then that reflects badly on me... cause if he were smarter, he may have chosen someone better. Plus, my grandma told me to find someone you can talk to, because everything else fades- but you want to have someone you can have a conversation with, as that lasts a lifetime....

PipSqueak0313

I'd rather have ugly than dumb, because if I lost my eyesight/in the dark his looks wouldn't matter, but stupidity.....well there's no hiding from that. Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Nvywife

I'm going with ugly because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and well ugly can still carry on intelligent conversations.

Mandmeesh

Chickypoo2468 said:

nevertune said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

You can pretend?

Lol

stoneycakes

Chickypoo2468 said:

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

**She Blinded me with Science Meme goes here**

Stupid memes won't work.

AggieMom0809

Chickypoo2468 said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

My personal preference on what makes a guy "hot" is completely different from others. There is no way I married my DH for looks! He's not your typical "hot", but he is muscular and well kept. Brains were a big deciding factor. Eventually looks will fade, so I went with someone who could become sucessful.

Into+the+Kitty

AggieMom0809 said:

Chickypoo2468 said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

My personal preference on what makes a guy "hot" is completely different from others. There is no way I married my DH for looks! He's not your typical "hot", but he is muscular and well kept. Brains were a big deciding factor. Eventually looks will fade, so I went with someone who could become sucessful.

Right? I was totally after my husband for his money too.

Mandmeesh

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Chickypoo2468 said:

nevertune said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

My personal preference on what makes a guy "hot" is completely different from others. There is no way I married my DH for looks! He's not your typical "hot", but he is muscular and well kept. Brains were a big deciding factor. Eventually looks will fade, so I went with someone who could become sucessful.

Right? I was totally after my husband for his money too.



People's preferences might be different....but ugly is ugly

Into+the+Kitty

When I met my husband, I was like, 'Holy smokes, uggo. No way I'd marry you for your looks. But
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Mandmeesh

LLOL

Into+the+Kitty

stoneycakes

"Holy smokes, Uggo"

Dead.

nevertune

Chickypoo2468 said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

Aww, I really don't know if he's hot to other ladies. I would assume that since I'm attracted to him that he is, but I don't know that. Any females friends I've asked say he's cute, but would you really tell a happy friend that her boyfriend/husband wasn't?

Into+the+Kitty

nevertune said:

Chickypoo2468 said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

Aww, I really don't know if he's hot to other ladies. I would assume that since I'm attracted to him that he is, but I don't know that. Any females friends I've asked say he's cute, but would you really tell a happy friend that her boyfriend/husband wasn't?

Post a picture so we can judge him give our objective opinions.

Into+the+Kitty

I read this to J and he rolled his eyes at me.

Baby, I can't help it if your sexiest attribute is your rear end.

TJ1979

I cannot love tit that enough ITK.

AggieMom0809

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Chickypoo2468 said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

My personal preference on what makes a guy "hot" is completely different from others. There is no way I married my DH for looks! He's not your typical "hot", but he is muscular and well kept. Brains were a big deciding factor. Eventually looks will fade, so I went with someone who could become sucessful.

Right? I was totally after my husband for his money too.

Successful doesn't always have to be money related. I mean someone who wasn't going to spend their life on the couch, who will work hard for what they earn and teach my kids that working hard is more satisfying than being given everything (whether it's through given wealth or welfare).

Into+the+Kitty

AggieMom0809 said:

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Chickypoo2468 said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

My personal preference on what makes a guy "hot" is completely different from others. There is no way I married my DH for looks! He's not your typical "hot", but he is muscular and well kept. Brains were a big deciding factor. Eventually looks will fade, so I went with someone who could become sucessful.

Right? I was totally after my husband for his money too.

Successful doesn't always have to be money related. I mean someone who wasn't going to spend their life on the couch, who will work hard for what they earn and teach my kids that working hard is more satisfying than being given everything (whether it's through given wealth or welfare).

Sure. Because you can't be an attractive person and have a good work ethic. And those dumb people are all really lazy too. Sure that's what you meant.

Into+the+Kitty

theultimatesak said:

My husband is attractive and smart AND a hard worker. Looks like you ladies who had to chose one or the other are really missing out.

Yeah, but is he well acquainted with that nice fellow Benjamin?



#Priorites SAK.

ABColeslaw

I find intelligence super attractive, so to me...brains = Beauty.  If everyone thought my H was dumb, they might as well think he is ugly too. 

FWIW, I'm pretty sure that my H is not considered attractive to most people.  But he is so smart it hurts my brain. 

unaveragejane

Well, MH isn't all that good looking or smart or rich; he's just great in the sack! It's a good thing I asked all my friends their opinions first considering I had to stay chaste until we got married, too.

AggieMom0809

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Chickypoo2468 said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

My personal preference on what makes a guy "hot" is completely different from others. There is no way I married my DH for looks! He's not your typical "hot", but he is muscular and well kept. Brains were a big deciding factor. Eventually looks will fade, so I went with someone who could become sucessful.

Right? I was totally after my husband for his money too.

Successful doesn't always have to be money related. I mean someone who wasn't going to spend their life on the couch, who will work hard for what they earn and teach my kids that working hard is more satisfying than being given everything (whether it's through given wealth or welfare).

Sure. Because you can't be an attractive person and have a good work ethic. And those dumb people are all really lazy too. Sure that's what you meant.

Of course not! It means I went for the guys in the harder classes, who spoke with a greater vocabulary, and who acted like there was a life after college. 

Mandmeesh

AggieMom0809 said:

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Chickypoo2468 said:

nevertune said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

My personal preference on what makes a guy "hot" is completely different from others. There is no way I married my DH for looks! He's not your typical "hot", but he is muscular and well kept. Brains were a big deciding factor. Eventually looks will fade, so I went with someone who could become sucessful.

Right? I was totally after my husband for his money too.

Successful doesn't always have to be money related. I mean someone who wasn't going to spend their life on the couch, who will work hard for what they earn and teach my kids that working hard is more satisfying than being given everything (whether it's through given wealth or welfare).



Sure. Because you can't be an attractive person and have a good work ethic. And those dumb people are all really lazy too. Sure that's what you meant.




Of course not! It means I went for the guys in the harder classes, who spoke with a greater vocabulary, and who acted like there was a life after college. 

Most people I went to college with were assholes.

I'm having a hard time with this. A greater vocabulary? I sense so much judgment and stereotyping here....it's hurting my brain

Into+the+Kitty

stringy813 said:

I didn't put this much though into it. You guys (who aren't clearly making shit up) sound like you had 15 guys proposing and you chose. Wait, were you on the bachelorette? I went with the whole emotional attachment and similar values and can be my best friend til we are old approach.

Stringy, when you're this hot, there are guys literally lining up at the door. Which is great because hot people are really stupid, lazy, and unsuccessful. I mean, if they hadn't come to me I'd probably have never gotten the chance to get married.

Into+the+Kitty

Mandmeesh said:

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Chickypoo2468 said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

My personal preference on what makes a guy "hot" is completely different from others. There is no way I married my DH for looks! He's not your typical "hot", but he is muscular and well kept. Brains were a big deciding factor. Eventually looks will fade, so I went with someone who could become sucessful.

Right? I was totally after my husband for his money too.

Successful doesn't always have to be money related. I mean someone who wasn't going to spend their life on the couch, who will work hard for what they earn and teach my kids that working hard is more satisfying than being given everything (whether it's through given wealth or welfare).

Sure. Because you can't be an attractive person and have a good work ethic. And those dumb people are all really lazy too. Sure that's what you meant.

Of course not! It means I went for the guys in the harder classes, who spoke with a greater vocabulary, and who acted like there was a life after college. 

Most people I went to college with were assholes. I'm having a hard time with this. A greater vocabulary? I sense so much judgment and stereotyping here....it's hurting my brain

Meesh the point of going to college is clearly to snag a husband. It's why I went to law school AND medical school.

Mandmeesh

Into+the+Kitty said:

Mandmeesh said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Into+the+Kitty said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Chickypoo2468 said:

nevertune said:

I tried the looks over brains thing once. Didn't work out for me so well. After that I found intelligence highly attractive, so I have no idea what other people really think of how my husband looks. He's super dreamy to me, though!

Ok that's bull. Even if you are attracted to smarts alone, you know if he's hot or not. It's not like you can be blinded by brains.

My personal preference on what makes a guy "hot" is completely different from others. There is no way I married my DH for looks! He's not your typical "hot", but he is muscular and well kept. Brains were a big deciding factor. Eventually looks will fade, so I went with someone who could become sucessful.

Right? I was totally after my husband for his money too.

Successful doesn't always have to be money related. I mean someone who wasn't going to spend their life on the couch, who will work hard for what they earn and teach my kids that working hard is more satisfying than being given everything (whether it's through given wealth or welfare).

Sure. Because you can't be an attractive person and have a good work ethic. And those dumb people are all really lazy too. Sure that's what you meant.




Of course not! It means I went for the guys in the harder classes, who spoke with a greater vocabulary, and who acted like there was a life after college. 

Most people I went to college with were assholes.

I'm having a hard time with this. A greater vocabulary? I sense so much judgment and stereotyping here....it's hurting my brain



Meesh the point of going to college is clearly to snag a husband. It's why I went to law school AND medical school.

#showoff #overachiever #uglyasshitbrainiac

Into+the+Kitty

'Hey can I buy you a drink?'

'It depends, what's your GPA?'

mrshudson618

I just married the first guy I dated.
(Not kidding)
But what while he is extremely good looking, I was first attracted to his smarts. Our relationship delevoped as we competed for the #1 spot in our HS class. (We ended up tying. For second. Same GPA to a hundredth of a point. Still a sore spot becaus the guy who got #1 only did so because he dropped a class in the fourth quarter, and they erased the C he would have gotten for the whole year, not just the last quarter.)