i must say- I'm not sure if I've succumb to embracing my bitchy side bc I'm told it's acceptable when pregnant, or if my hormones are just raging! Whose with me?!
Also I have to say how wonderful you ladies are and that was proven without a doubt with the most recent loss one of our own experienced. It's amazing to know how much support one can get here when they are apart of the dialogue.
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I have to suppress my desire to punch everyone in the face all day. I only feel relaxed and less bitchy when I get home and put on my PJs.
I feel ya! The ones I want to punch in the face are kids though. It takes everything within me to not roll my eyes when the teachers send them to my office for a paper cut or "my eye keeps twitching". I feel like telling them "do you want me to kiss your boo boo and pat you on the head??" Unless you are vomiting, fell down and smacked your little head, or can't stop bleeding, get out of my office. This is not me, I have always been a nice nurse.
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Its weird cause I'm generally more bitchy, pregnancy somehow turned me into a weepy, caring, way more empathetic person. My husband appreciates it, but i just feel all alien like.
LOL. Today I started muttering under my breath because people were laughing too much at work. I even shut my office door eventually. That's when you know you've really gone over the grumpy edge. "STOP LAUGHING EVERYONE. NOW!"
Also, when I saw the title of this post, I thought maybe someone else was butthurt and telling us how mean we are
I wasn't too bad in the bitchy hormone department until about a week ago. I definitely have had to stop myself from screaming and punching certain people (not my husband lol).
I told a lady at sears to fuck off the other day and hung up on her (because every time I go and order something on sale they tell me that they "no longer have it" and offer me something more expensive and I am like FUCK OFF and give me what I want, then magically I can order it from the website no problem). I mean that's pretty bitchy, I also called the JW hall that keeps stopping by ..every week and leaving me brochures even though I have told them I am not interested for three years, and told them if they step foot on my property again I will shoot out their tires. They haven't been back in two months. (in my defense they make my dogs go crazy and wont leave no matter how many times I ask them too, one time I had a baby shower and they came in with everyone else pretending to be guests!!! and it took me like 30 min to get them out of my house)
I am always a brash person, but sometimes, lately, I might lean a little more towards crazy.
The homicidal tendencies are strong in me when it comes to people who are just being blatantly rude or stupid! I had to resist the urge to upper cut the checkout clerk in the junk at Smith's the other day because he was having a hard time giving me correct change back. 5 minutes standing there waiting while he counted and recounted my change over and over. I guess my permanent bitch face is a little intimidating I've been told...
I told a lady at sears to fuck off the other day and hung up on her (because every time I go and order something on sale they tell me that they "no longer have it" and offer me something more expensive and I am like FUCK OFF and give me what I want, then magically I can order it from the website no problem). I mean that's pretty bitchy, I also called the JW hall that keeps stopping by ..every week and leaving me brochures even though I have told them I am not interested for three years, and told them if they step foot on my property again I will shoot out their tires. They haven't been back in two months. (in my defense they make my dogs go crazy and wont leave no matter how many times I ask them too, one time I had a baby shower and they came in with everyone else pretending to be guests!!! and it took me like 30 min to get them out of my house)
I am always a brash person, but sometimes, lately, I might lean a little more towards crazy.
I would of called the cops. Immediately. That is insane. That being said they come every so often here too. But I make it a rule of life (especially home alone with a 15 month old and soon to be newborn) I do not open the door to anyone I am not expecting. Period. Now, them pretending to be guests is a whole different level of crazy and as I said, I would have called the cops immediately.
I have to suppress my desire to punch everyone in the face all day. I only feel relaxed and less bitchy when I get home and put on my PJs.
I feel ya! The ones I want to punch in the face are kids though. It takes everything within me to not roll my eyes when the teachers send them to my office for a paper cut or "my eye keeps twitching". I feel like telling them "do you want me to kiss your boo boo and pat you on the head??" Unless you are vomiting, fell down and smacked your little head, or can't stop bleeding, get out of my office. This is not me, I have always been a nice nurse.
LOL, be careful--remember that lady on facebook who said she wished she could do violence on her students?
I told a lady at sears to fuck off the other day and hung up on her (because every time I go and order something on sale they tell me that they "no longer have it" and offer me something more expensive and I am like FUCK OFF and give me what I want, then magically I can order it from the website no problem). I mean that's pretty bitchy, I also called the JW hall that keeps stopping by ..every week and leaving me brochures even though I have told them I am not interested for three years, and told them if they step foot on my property again I will shoot out their tires. They haven't been back in two months. (in my defense they make my dogs go crazy and wont leave no matter how many times I ask them too, one time I had a baby shower and they came in with everyone else pretending to be guests!!! and it took me like 30 min to get them out of my house)
I am always a brash person, but sometimes, lately, I might lean a little more towards crazy.
I would of called the cops. Immediately. That is insane. That being said they come every so often here too. But I make it a rule of life (especially home alone with a 15 month old and soon to be newborn) I do not open the door to anyone I am not expecting. Period. Now, them pretending to be guests is a whole different level of crazy and as I said, I would have called the cops immediately.
If I don't open the door they continue to knock and knock and knock and it makes my dogs go CRAZY! I used to just ignore them, but then I started opening the door (with the chain still on) and telling them to leave and that I am not interested and closing the door. Then they leave all sorts of pamphlets and stuff and sometimes keep knocking. Yeah, I was PISSED! I am like, oh are you here for the baby shower? and they said yes, so I told them to come in, they were early but I figured since I live in the country they wanted to make sure they got there on time and a few other people were showing up, as I was finishing setting up they started telling me about the "good word" or whatever. So I am like..what? are you not a guest? and they were all no we came to share the good news. Took me FOREVER to get them out of my house, I was finally like LEAVE NOW!! I didn't want to make a huge scene especially since the mama to be's husband is JW so I didn't know if they were his family friends at first....
Yeah i completely get the dogs going crazy part. It's taken me all 15 months of my DSs life but my dog is sorta better about the door now. He still goes BSC when my DH comes home though. :-S
As for the baby shower that would be so amazingly awkward. Still the impersonated being invited guests to gain access to your home. Even if the MTB was related to JW...that's a whole different level of illegal crazy. Hope they dont come back anymore.
@Alygohome we have a similar problem. DH rooms them to stop coming to our house so they only come when he isn't home and if I don't answer the door they stay for almost 30 mins. I know this because I've waited 30 minutes to open the door before and they were standing there. Last time I was sick, in the middle of making dinner with a half naked, screaming toddler and I still couldn't get them to go away.
@Alygohome we have a similar problem. DH rooms them to stop coming to our house so they only come when he isn't home and if I don't answer the door they stay for almost 30 mins. I know this because I've waited 30 minutes to open the door before and they were standing there. Last time I was sick, in the middle of making dinner with a half naked, screaming toddler and I still couldn't get them to go away.
Same here! its creepy like they watch our vehicles or something. Funny cause DH is way nicer than I am. I wish there was something I could do to make them stay away for good!
@Alygohome we have a similar problem. DH rooms them to stop coming to our house so they only come when he isn't home and if I don't answer the door they stay for almost 30 mins. I know this because I've waited 30 minutes to open the door before and they were standing there. Last time I was sick, in the middle of making dinner with a half naked, screaming toddler and I still couldn't get them to go away.
Same here! its creepy like they watch our vehicles or something. Funny cause DH is way nicer than I am. I wish there was something I could do to make them stay away for good!
If only 2 women come it may have something to do with their rules. I don't think women are allowed to preach to/convert men but it's still really creepy that they do that.
The last time one came to my house I told them if they could give me biblical references (chapter and verse) to a question I had I'd talk to them. They obviously agreed. I come from a VERY religious family and grew up in private school so I knew I could stump them.. I haven't seen them in 6 months.
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The JW leave sooooo much crap on my door. Annoying. I have not encountered them at the door just yet. I'm sure when I am on leave, they will be a problem. I will a raging biotch if they knock on my door and wake the baby.
We get sooooo much crap on our door its unbelievable. The lady that we bought the house from last year, had all of her 7 low life kids living with her and we get furniture rental collection notices, subpoenas, warrants, court orders, you name it left on our doorstep. I'm just waiting for myself to open the door when one of these show up again. I almost want to put a disclaimer under my no soliciting sign that mentions that these low lifes don't live here anymore, I'm catholic and not converting to another religion (no matter how hard you try, I'm not converting) and no I don't need new windows because if you look at our house we already have new windows. Pretty sure that still would not keep them from dropping their crap on my doorstep.
I have actually been nicer and calmer too! It's really weird I expected to be a raging crazy bitch. I know there is still time for that though so I tell the hubby to enjoy this while it last .. Lol
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I feel ya! The ones I want to punch in the face are kids though. It takes everything within me to not roll my eyes when the teachers send them to my office for a paper cut or "my eye keeps twitching". I feel like telling them "do you want me to kiss your boo boo and pat you on the head??" Unless you are vomiting, fell down and smacked your little head, or can't stop bleeding, get out of my office. This is not me, I have always been a nice nurse.
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Also, when I saw the title of this post, I thought maybe someone else was butthurt and telling us how mean we are
I told a lady at sears to fuck off the other day and hung up on her (because every time I go and order something on sale they tell me that they "no longer have it" and offer me something more expensive and I am like FUCK OFF and give me what I want, then magically I can order it from the website no problem). I mean that's pretty bitchy, I also called the JW hall that keeps stopping by ..every week and leaving me brochures even though I have told them I am not interested for three years, and told them if they step foot on my property again I will shoot out their tires. They haven't been back in two months. (in my defense they make my dogs go crazy and wont leave no matter how many times I ask them too, one time I had a baby shower and they came in with everyone else pretending to be guests!!! and it took me like 30 min to get them out of my house)
I am always a brash person, but sometimes, lately, I might lean a little more towards crazy.
Oh well!
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As for the baby shower that would be so amazingly awkward. Still the impersonated being invited guests to gain access to your home. Even if the MTB was related to JW...that's a whole different level of illegal crazy. Hope they dont come back anymore.
Same here! its creepy like they watch our vehicles or something. Funny cause DH is way nicer than I am. I wish there was something I could do to make them stay away for good!If only 2 women come it may have something to do with their rules. I don't think women are allowed to preach to/convert men but it's still really creepy that they do that.
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We get sooooo much crap on our door its unbelievable. The lady that we bought the house from last year, had all of her 7 low life kids living with her and we get furniture rental collection notices, subpoenas, warrants, court orders, you name it left on our doorstep. I'm just waiting for myself to open the door when one of these show up again. I almost want to put a disclaimer under my no soliciting sign that mentions that these low lifes don't live here anymore, I'm catholic and not converting to another religion (no matter how hard you try, I'm not converting) and no I don't need new windows because if you look at our house we already have new windows. Pretty sure that still would not keep them from dropping their crap on my doorstep.