Hi,
I know this may sound silly but I could just use a little encouragement. I am nearly 28 years old and have been married for about a year. We do okay financially and I am looking at decent promotion upon the new year. We are blended family as I had my first child at 17. I obviously was scared to death at that point and my family was incredibly unhappy. (Hence that was NOT a fun pregnancy) I have always wanted a big family and after my first I got my act together. I finished college and now have a nice career and a happy family. The problem is even though I am married and on my own my family still thinks of me as a child and they all have told me I should not have any more children because I started to young. So, I guess the question is how can I get the courage to tell my family I am pregnant again and that I am over the moon excited to begin to add to our family? My husband is thrilled and I know his family will be thrilled as well as this is his first blood child. Any advice?
Re: Scared to tell family
I say tell them very confidently and be happy regardless of their reaction. I was scare to tell my family when I found out about DD because of the situation with my first. DH announce to his family first and their reactions was pure excitement. After that reaction and my own feelings nothing my family did mattered. They were very "meh" about the pregnancy but adore my kids. Be confident and make your own happy.