I know this is probably crazy but I am feeling really pessimistic about getting PG.. We took a chance in August.. ( 2 days before ovulation) and last month actually tried.. ( 2 days before Ov and again on OV day and day after) nothing. I know its only couple months but we are 38 and idk.. dr wasn't sure last year if I could possibly have fibroids.. I was supposed to have a MRI but couldn't afford the deductible.. im hoping its not.. it was a transvaginal he did cause I have clots when I ovulate. I mean it does on average take 6 months right?? Also, do you think its worthwhile to get ovulation test??
Re: feeling like this wont ever happen..
It's a good idea for anyone TTC, but especially those of us who don't have unlimited time, to get a general workup in the beginning--CD 3 bloodwork, HSG if possible, and yes, 7 dpo progesterone test. That will give you an idea of what you're working with, whether there's anything that needs further investigation, and whether you need to move to more aggressive measures in the near future.
OBs are extremely unpopular on this board, but if fertility coverage is an issue, they can often code some of this stuff so insurance will cover it (mine did, long ago when I was TTC my DD).
Good luck!
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
The over the counter sperm tests are "real." They accurately measure sperm count. They don't say anything about the health of the sperm, however. DH did take one, and it gave us some peace of mind, but since they don't give a complete picture, it may or may not be worth it to you.
Depending on your insurance, you may need 6 months of documented trying, and a referral from your OB, to see an RE (I did).
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
I don't have much advice except to relay what my doc said when I told her we were going to try...she said, "have all the sex you can for six months, if nothing happens, come see me." So...we are taking her advice for now.
Thanks to pp's with info on RE/OB and insurance issues, that's something I know nothing about and want to learn as much as possible before that six month mark...just in case I need it!
Eta: doc didn't suggest there was a "problem" if nothing happened by 6mo, just said that's a good time to start testing for those if us with ticking clocks...