My dad's wife recently passed away and she apparently wanted me to have her wedding jewelry - engagement ring and two bands. Which is super sweet and sentimental of her and I definitely appreciate her thinking of me. However, I have no idea what to do with them other than just store them in their boxes. They are not my size, and not my style if I did want to get them fitted for my fingers. And I would feel weird altering them anyway, because I know she loved them exactly as they are.
SO if you have gotten anything like this, what did you do with it? Is there some point where you did feel okay altering the piece(s) to be something you can actually wear? Part of me thinks it would be nice to be able to wear this in some way to remember her, but I really would feel weird changing it.
Re: NBR - Family jewelry that is left to you
@cortney411 - that is a nice idea.
@AprilMay9 - you are right, I am sure. But I also worry about offending my dad who of course is the one that picked out and bought the rings.
Either way I will not do anything immediately.
I never met her before she passed but I am told she was very kind, healthy, and loved baseball; all things that I can relate to, coincidentally. She also made these amazing, like for real amazing, orange dipped sugar cookies and I can't boil water to save my life but every Christmas I try to make them because they are just slices of heaven. So, I think I would of gotten along with her quite nicely.
Long story short, DHs aunt was a jeweler, before she also passed, and made the diamond into a pendant that could be worn separately or in this white gold holder. She gave to DH to give to me on our 1 year wedding anniversary. I'm actually wearing it now, and am too lazy to take off and take a pic but it's definitely an honor to have and wear, considering she had 3 children and multiple grandchildren and I never met her.
Best of luck!
I have an Opal ring that isn't my style that my grandma gave me that use to be my great grandmas and unfortunately there's nothing that can be done to it where I could wear it and like it. I just wear it every so often and when I'm around my grandma I try to wear it. Otherwise it sits in the little box in my jewelry box.
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