@huntjul I just felt ready. I know that's not really an good answer though. H has been ready for a few months and I was still frazzled about being the caregiver most of the time.
We had a talk last weekend about how he needed to help more (like if I'm trying to feed Eleanor and eat and do ten other things and your done that helping clean up instead of sitting on the couch would be nice). He's been good since. He's always been good with dd but I needed more.
Dd had been sleeping better (teething nightmare aside) and I just feel ready to see what happens. If it happens quickly I'm good and if it takes awhile that fine too.
R&K married 4.15.11. TTC #1 since 7.11.12
BFP #1 9.9.12 EDD 5.21.13 c/p 9.12.12 at 4 weeks 1 day
BFP #2 10.15.12 EDD 6.28.13 c/p 10.19.12 at 4 weeks.
BFP #3 1.19.13 EDD 10.1.13 Eleanor born 10.7.13 at 40 weeks 6 days
@huntjul I just felt ready. I know that's not really an good answer though. H has been ready for a few months and I was still frazzled about being the caregiver most of the time.
We had a talk last weekend about how he needed to help more (like if I'm trying to feed Eleanor and eat and do ten other things and your done that helping clean up instead of sitting on the couch would be nice). He's been good since. He's always been good with dd but I needed more.
Dd had been sleeping better (teething nightmare aside) and I just feel ready to see what happens. If it happens quickly I'm good and if it takes awhile that fine too.
Feeling ready is a good reason! I'm glad YH has been helping more. Mine needed a reminder a while ago too, and things have been better since.
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We had a talk last weekend about how he needed to help more (like if I'm trying to feed Eleanor and eat and do ten other things and your done that helping clean up instead of sitting on the couch would be nice). He's been good since. He's always been good with dd but I needed more.
Dd had been sleeping better (teething nightmare aside) and I just feel ready to see what happens. If it happens quickly I'm good and if it takes awhile that fine too.
R&K married 4.15.11. TTC #1 since 7.11.12
BFP #1 9.9.12 EDD 5.21.13 c/p 9.12.12 at 4 weeks 1 day
BFP #2 10.15.12 EDD 6.28.13 c/p 10.19.12 at 4 weeks.
BFP #3 1.19.13 EDD 10.1.13 Eleanor born 10.7.13 at 40 weeks 6 days
13dpo hcg@32, progesterone@13.7, 15dpo hcg@110, 16dpo progesterone@25.9
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