birth

Gennierose

I don't know about any other exspecting mothers, but this is my first child and I'm 15. I am extremely nervous for birth.. :-S

ghostof5letters

Completely common fear. Just remind yourself that no matter what, it's gotta come to an end and the baby will be born. In the grand scheme of things, it's a short amount of time and sooner or later it'll be over. Try to learn as much as you can about the process before you're due. 

stine28

Yes, I think that many of us are nervous. I sure am. Read as much as you can about birth and child care as you can in this time. Find reputable sources to learn from. Speak with adult women that you trust and ask for their guidance.

Knowledge is power. You can do this.

happybabe123

Also, look for support groups in your area for teen moms. Know that there are lots of programs and assistance for you, you just have to look and you may need to do some work for them, but it is worth it.

As far as birth itself, remember your body is made to give birth. I understand why your are nervous, but I agree with the other ladies, knowledge is power. I was a mom for the first time at 17. I am now 29 with #3 on the way. You can do this! Find someone you trust and that has given birth themselves to support you and be by your side during the birth (like your mom). That will help too.

hden15

Please please please I cannot recommend a birthing class enough. You can do this and you will and the scary stuff will pass. But if there was one thing I could tell my younger self it's that learning how to push in the middle of labor is NOT ideal. I know it all seems scary but as a btdt I can say that the hardest part is not knowing.

djoliet

It is scary but honestly, your body knows what to do. I never took a birthing class and I just let my body do what it needed to do. You never know how your labor will go but once your holding that precious baby in your arms everything you go through is worth it

BabyFlax3615

I am a first time mom too and very nervous about that part. I am definitely going to take a birthing class soon, read about birth, and talk to moms who have been through it. That is what I would recommend!! It will be so worth it when we get to meet our babies....that is what I keep telling myself!

SBmomma

I never took a birthing class because I knew all the information (and visuals) would just make me get more freaked out. Birth certainly takes care of itself no matter if it's natural, c-section, drugs, no drugs, etc. Just relax & stay positive.

Gennierose

Thank you guys. It really helped a lot