I am 34 years old, with a 7 y/o bb. Now married but unable to conceive again Just had clomid 50mg and had my first IUI 7 days ago. Now waiting, just waiting.....
BFP #4 2/18/14. EDD 10/30/14... Ruptured ectopic with L tube removed & D&C 3/7/14.
BFP #5 7/27/14. EDD 4/9/15... m/c @ 5w4d.
IVF #1 Oct 2014 - antagonist protocol: 9R, 7M, 5F. 3dt of 3 Grade 2 embies. BFN.
IVF #2 Jan 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle. Converted to IUI #1. BFFN
IVF #2.1 March 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.
BFP #6 (SUPRISE!) 3/19/15. EDD 11/30/15... CP at 4w2d.
IUI #2: Clomid + Follistim = 3 follies. BFN.
IVF #2.2 May 2015 - horrible response to micro lupron flare protocol: 3R, 3M, 3F. 3dt of 2 Grade 3 embies. BFFN.
BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).
the universe can fuck off.
"You are
overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you."
-lastsliverofhope
Great. So what good is a forum if you have to jump through so many hoops and meet such specific criteria that you end up not feeling welcome anywhere?
"Oh, I am sorry that you have been diagnosed with secondary infertility.... And I am sorry you dont have any one close by to talk to about it... And that you are desperately looking for people to talk to that can understand what you are going through.... but unfortunately we strongly recommend you dont join us if you are in the 2ww (which I am guessing are the waiting weeks) or if it is your first IUI cycle.... find another forum! Good luck!"
And what happens when every forum has the same replies?
-dont post here if you already have a child
-dont post here if you are doing iuis instead of ivfs, even if you are diagnosed with infertility
-dont post here if you are just having trouble ttc and havent had tests done yet
What is the point of having forums if you are not welcome anywhere?
It's a fairly new board and sounds like it may be a good home for you.
Best of luck!
Me: 32, DH: 33 DS #1: April 2010 DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
Re: Newbie on first IUI cycle
BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).
the universe can fuck off.
"You are overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you." -lastsliverofhope
DS #1: April 2010
DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis