We spent the weekend with my FIL and his gf at their beach house. All was well until he proceeded to tell me and DH that our relationship will most likely end in divorce. We are two weeks away from our due date why would you bring up divorce? This man has no filter.
I just generally feel stabby. Mainly b/c DH decided to AGAIN drag up an ancient argument from 3 YEARS AGO that he apparently is not over yet. I'm so sick and tired of this shit. According to him, he brought it up b/c we didn't have sex the other night. Apparently, sex helps him to "suppress his feelings about it," and I should give it to him when he needs it so that we don't get into a fight. That is such bullshit. This should have been resolved back then, like we agreed that it was. So, just b/c he's thinking about it, apparently means that he can be mean as fuck to me just b/c he's in a bitchy mood. Honestly, I think that all of this is stemming from his nervousness about the baby and the fact that we have no one right now to be able to watch our son if we have an emergency situation with the baby. He just tends to focus on something that he has a passing thought about that has nothing to do with the actual situation at hand. Then he drives me absolutely nuts with it for weeks, even months at a time. He needs to just freakin' deal with it and move on. Quit dwelling Dude! It doesn't do anyone any good, especially your family!
BIL who offered to send us some of their daughter's clothes because the one on the way is going to be in the wrong season. I appreciate the sentiment, but how about you send us the $800 you owe hubby instead.
We were supposed to get pictures yesterday from a lady trying to build a portfolio. I confirmed with her Saturday night and eveything. Yep, she just didn't show up or answer phone calls after I drove 30 mins away and paid to get into the park SHE wanted to go to. WTF.
I just generally feel stabby. Mainly b/c DH decided to AGAIN drag up an ancient argument from 3 YEARS AGO that he apparently is not over yet. I'm so sick and tired of this shit. According to him, he brought it up b/c we didn't have sex the other night. Apparently, sex helps him to "suppress his feelings about it," and I should give it to him when he needs it so that we don't get into a fight. That is such bullshit. This should have been resolved back then, like we agreed that it was. So, just b/c he's thinking about it, apparently means that he can be mean as fuck to me just b/c he's in a bitchy mood. Honestly, I think that all of this is stemming from his nervousness about the baby and the fact that we have no one right now to be able to watch our son if we have an emergency situation with the baby. He just tends to focus on something that he has a passing thought about that has nothing to do with the actual situation at hand. Then he drives me absolutely nuts with it for weeks, even months at a time. He needs to just freakin' deal with it and move on. Quit dwelling Dude! It doesn't do anyone any good, especially your family!
I don't get it. How is he still dragging up a fight from 3 years ago? How is saying that the only way for him to supress his anger is thru sex? How are you making excuses for this?
False Labor you are evil! I hate you! Thanks for letting me spend my night getting to the hospital just to have my contractions slow and then stop. I feel so old. It's been a couple years since I have been out at 3a.m.
I have another. Both of the kids in this house are annoying the shit out of me. My SS yesterday decided to bust up his bike with one of his friends because he wanted a new bike. Then he told DH one story nd me a different like we wouldn't talk about it. Now SS's mom thinks that he won't do shit like this if he lived with her. Right.
And DD thinks its fun to jump on my stomach and climb behind me in the recliner an try to push me off.
Oh, and we all have a freaking cold in this house.
I feel like I got hit by a damn truck. My pregnancy waddle is gone, but I now have an old lady hobble. My back, shoulders, neck, biceps, hips....everything feels like I was weightlifting an elephant. Not cool, yo.
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I just generally feel stabby. Mainly b/c DH decided to AGAIN drag up an ancient argument from 3 YEARS AGO that he apparently is not over yet. I'm so sick and tired of this shit. According to him, he brought it up b/c we didn't have sex the other night. Apparently, sex helps him to "suppress his feelings about it," and I should give it to him when he needs it so that we don't get into a fight. That is such bullshit. This should have been resolved back then, like we agreed that it was. So, just b/c he's thinking about it, apparently means that he can be mean as fuck to me just b/c he's in a bitchy mood. Honestly, I think that all of this is stemming from his nervousness about the baby and the fact that we have no one right now to be able to watch our son if we have an emergency situation with the baby. He just tends to focus on something that he has a passing thought about that has nothing to do with the actual situation at hand. Then he drives me absolutely nuts with it for weeks, even months at a time. He needs to just freakin' deal with it and move on. Quit dwelling Dude! It doesn't do anyone any good, especially your family!
I don't get it. How is he still dragging up a fight from 3 years ago? How is saying that the only way for him to supress his anger is thru sex? How are you making excuses for this?
Not trying to answer for her, but my guess would be some type of trust thingy happened, and sex is what makes him feel closer to her and not think about it? That would be my only guess, as to why she is can kind of see it his way? :-/
I just generally feel stabby. Mainly b/c DH decided to AGAIN drag up an ancient argument from 3 YEARS AGO that he apparently is not over yet. I'm so sick and tired of this shit. According to him, he brought it up b/c we didn't have sex the other night. Apparently, sex helps him to "suppress his feelings about it," and I should give it to him when he needs it so that we don't get into a fight. That is such bullshit. This should have been resolved back then, like we agreed that it was. So, just b/c he's thinking about it, apparently means that he can be mean as fuck to me just b/c he's in a bitchy mood. Honestly, I think that all of this is stemming from his nervousness about the baby and the fact that we have no one right now to be able to watch our son if we have an emergency situation with the baby. He just tends to focus on something that he has a passing thought about that has nothing to do with the actual situation at hand. Then he drives me absolutely nuts with it for weeks, even months at a time. He needs to just freakin' deal with it and move on. Quit dwelling Dude! It doesn't do anyone any good, especially your family!
I don't get it. How is he still dragging up a fight from 3 years ago? How is saying that the only way for him to
supress his anger is thru sex? How are you making excuses for this?
Not trying to answer for her, but my guess would be some type of trust thingy happened, and sex is what makes him feel closer to her and not think about it? That would be my only guess, as to why she is can kind of see it his way? :-/
Nah. Sounds like he's using sex as a way to control her and as an excuse for his bad behavior. "I treat you badly because we haven't done it in 3 days." I'm of the camp that there is never an excuse to treat someone badly. You own your own shit.
Phone rings at 7am. "We need you to come into work early tonight." "Okay, so are you going to have someone come in early to relieve me?" "No we need you to work your entire shift too." "That's nice, I'm on a 10 hour restriction, you have to find someone else." "There is no one else." "This is not my problem, this is why you are on-call. I cannot help you."
"But we need you." "This is not my problem, you have been aware of my work restriction for over a week now, I will be in when my shift starts."
People I don't make shit up and fax it to you from the Dr's office. I'm not that talented of a bullshitter. Promotion starts AFTER leave, not before it. Let me sleep yo.
I just generally feel stabby. Mainly b/c DH decided to AGAIN drag up an ancient argument from 3 YEARS AGO that he apparently is not over yet. I'm so sick and tired of this shit. According to him, he brought it up b/c we didn't have sex the other night. Apparently, sex helps him to "suppress his feelings about it," and I should give it to him when he needs it so that we don't get into a fight. That is such bullshit. This should have been resolved back then, like we agreed that it was. So, just b/c he's thinking about it, apparently means that he can be mean as fuck to me just b/c he's in a bitchy mood. Honestly, I think that all of this is stemming from his nervousness about the baby and the fact that we have no one right now to be able to watch our son if we have an emergency situation with the baby. He just tends to focus on something that he has a passing thought about that has nothing to do with the actual situation at hand. Then he drives me absolutely nuts with it for weeks, even months at a time. He needs to just freakin' deal with it and move on. Quit dwelling Dude! It doesn't do anyone any good, especially your family!
I don't get it. How is he still dragging up a fight from 3 years ago? How is saying that the only way for him to
supress his anger is thru sex? How are you making excuses for this?
Not trying to answer for her, but my guess would be some type of trust thingy happened, and sex is what makes him feel closer to her and not think about it? That would be my only guess, as to why she is can kind of see it his way? :-/
Yes, it was a trust issue that happened, and because of the kids, I'm desperately trying to work things out with him. He's a good man at heart, but he when gets an idea in his head, you cannot convince him otherwise. What he believes to be true is the only truth, whether it's actually true or not.
Everything was settled and has been peaceful for months, and now this. I think that it's being brought out by his anger toward other issues right now, and now, when I need to be relaxing and getting ready for this surgery, he's agitating the hell out of me. I'm just so frustrated.
My SO decided to move our furniture around in our bedroom so that it would fit better with the baby's things... I looked at him like he grew a second head. I flat out told him that I was not going to move a finger on anything. Seriously, three days before my trip to the hospital. I think he's more nervous than I am.
I've been told by several people in my family that they can "tell the baby is coming" because I'm "way bitchier than normal".... um go fuck yourself. It's a week until my due date... I can "tell the baby is coming" because I can fucking count to 40.
I just generally feel stabby. Mainly b/c DH decided to AGAIN drag up an ancient argument from 3 YEARS AGO that he apparently is not over yet. I'm so sick and tired of this shit. According to him, he brought it up b/c we didn't have sex the other night. Apparently, sex helps him to "suppress his feelings about it," and I should give it to him when he needs it so that we don't get into a fight. That is such bullshit. This should have been resolved back then, like we agreed that it was. So, just b/c he's thinking about it, apparently means that he can be mean as fuck to me just b/c he's in a bitchy mood. Honestly, I think that all of this is stemming from his nervousness about the baby and the fact that we have no one right now to be able to watch our son if we have an emergency situation with the baby. He just tends to focus on something that he has a passing thought about that has nothing to do with the actual situation at hand. Then he drives me absolutely nuts with it for weeks, even months at a time. He needs to just freakin' deal with it and move on. Quit dwelling Dude! It doesn't do anyone any good, especially your family!
I don't get it. How is he still dragging up a fight from 3 years ago? How is saying that the only way for him to
supress his anger is thru sex? How are you making excuses for this?
Not trying to answer for her, but my guess would be some type of trust thingy happened, and sex is what makes him feel closer to her and not think about it? That would be my only guess, as to why she is can kind of see it his way? :-/
Yes, it was a trust issue that happened, and because of the kids, I'm desperately trying to work things out with him. He's a good man at heart, but he when gets an idea in his head, you cannot convince him otherwise. What he believes to be true is the only truth, whether it's actually true or not.
Everything was settled and has been peaceful for months, and now this. I think that it's being brought out by his anger toward other issues right now, and now, when I need to be relaxing and getting ready for this surgery, he's agitating the hell out of me. I'm just so frustrated.
not gonna lie, this makes me nervous/sad reading. I agree with @trebekastan - it sounds like he uses sex to control an old "issue" he hasn't gotten over. I agree with you stressful times can bring out a bizarre side of folks, but I hope he's able to recognize that's not cool.
good luck and best wishes with the upcoming surgery!!!
It's raining, and everything is closed since it's Labor Day, I really wanted to take DD somewhere fun like the children's museum. Plus she is being a nightmare probably she's getting teeth, they look like they should of popped through weeks ago but they're just still barely there. Or it could be because she's so bored since I can barely get off the couch without wanting to cry and my husband is so lazy lately.
I've been told by several people in my family that they can "tell the baby is coming" because I'm "way bitchier than normal".... um go fuck yourself. It's a week until my due date... I can "tell the baby is coming" because I can fucking count to 40.
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It's raining, and everything is closed since it's Labor Day, I really wanted to take DD somewhere fun like the children's museum. Plus she is being a nightmare probably she's getting teeth, they look like they should of popped through weeks ago but they're just still barely there. Or it could be because she's so bored since I can barely get off the couch without wanting to cry and my husband is so lazy lately.
What's with the lazy husband thing ? My dh basically watched me sterilize the house last night like a freaking maniac and laughed and would let the 3yo tear things apart pretty much in front of him and not stop her. Seriously?!? Get off your ass and outta my way, man. And if you're not gonna help, you should at least keep the kids from making more messes. X(
I was next in line after waiting an eternity at walmart...9 months pregnant and dealing with a misbehaving 5 year old...when some grown ass man decides to ask if he can go ahead of me in line. Maybe I'm overly hormonal...but all I could do is glare at him and say, "sure, why not." :-w
I was next in line after waiting an eternity at walmart...9 months pregnant and dealing with a misbehaving 5 year old...when some grown ass man decides to ask if he can go ahead of me in line. Maybe I'm overly hormonal...but all I could do is glare at him and say, "sure, why not." :-w
My week-long+ cold turned into a sinus infection. I hate everyone and everything right now. This needs to go the eff away before I have to try and birth a baby.
I was next in line after waiting an eternity at walmart...9 months pregnant and dealing with a misbehaving 5 year old...when some grown ass man decides to ask if he can go ahead of me in line. Maybe I'm overly hormonal...but all I could do is glare at him and say, "sure, why not." :-w
I would have said no with the bitchest and coldest glare I could make at him. What's he going to do if you don't let him go first?
Bent over and saw spots for five minutes last night. Had a headache last night and well into this morning. Plus am experiencing some sciatica pain. Induction Thursday and really nervous. Would rather it "just happened".
I was next in line after waiting an eternity at walmart...9 months pregnant and dealing with a misbehaving 5 year old...when some grown ass man decides to ask if he can go ahead of me in line. Maybe I'm overly hormonal...but all I could do is glare at him and say, "sure, why not." :-w
This absolutely happened to us over the weekend at Taco Bell!!! Cranky old man walks in and starts edging his way in front of us, and we had been school shopping so we had all 3 kids and pregnant me, all starving and I kept moving forward showing him we were in line before he was. Then he looks at dh and says "I know what I want so can I go in front of you?" Wtf crazy old man?!? But of course dh says yes. So I mouth off, did that really just happen? We don't have 3 hungry kids and a 9 month pregnant woman here, but go right ahead. Some people are just assholes.
And to top it all off, I tried a quesarito, and was a little disappointed. Should have stuck with my normal.
I was next in line after waiting an eternity at walmart...9 months pregnant and dealing with a misbehaving 5 year old...when some grown ass man decides to ask if he can go ahead of me in line. Maybe I'm overly hormonal...but all I could do is glare at him and say, "sure, why not." :-w
I would have said no with the bitchest and coldest glare I could make at him. What's he going to do if you don't let him go first?
MMm-mmm. I had some hooker ask if she could go ahead of me at the cable office (was there returning our equipment). I just glared at her and then looked at my belly and then looked back at her. She took a couple steps back.
I'm just done with my 15month old right now.. I know that is horrible to say but you cannot possibly think I'll be thrilled after you kept me up most the night and then spent the whole morning whining and screaming as I try getting what I need done done...
I was next in line after waiting an eternity at walmart...9 months pregnant and dealing with a misbehaving 5 year old...when some grown ass man decides to ask if he can go ahead of me in line. Maybe I'm overly hormonal...but all I could do is glare at him and say, "sure, why not." :-w
This has happened to me at Wal Mart too, I said "No, I've been waiting.". Some people have either massive balls or unrealistic sense of entitlement.
My MIL called DH asking how I was doing. Im glad my DH can shut her up because I could not deal with answering the kind of questions she was asking:
MIL: "How did she sleep last night?"
DH: "Like crap, like every other night"
MIL: "Oh why, is she still sore?"
DH: "Yeah Mom, I dont think that is going to change until after the baby is here so you can quit acting surprised when I tell you, Yes she is still sore, for the millionth time."
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FIL and his gf at their beach house. All was well until he proceeded to tell me and DH that our relationship will most likely end in divorce. We are two weeks away from our due date why would you bring up divorce? This man has no filter.
Thanks for letting me spend my night getting to the hospital just to have my contractions slow and then stop.
I feel so old. It's been a couple years since I have been out at 3a.m.
And DD thinks its fun to jump on my stomach and climb behind me in the recliner an try to push me off.
Oh, and we all have a freaking cold in this house.
supress his anger is thru sex? How are you making excuses for this?
Not trying to answer for her, but my guess would be some type of trust thingy happened, and sex is what makes him feel closer to her and not think about it? That would be my only guess, as to why she is can kind of see it his way? :-/
"Okay, so are you going to have someone come in early to relieve me?"
"No we need you to work your entire shift too."
"That's nice, I'm on a 10 hour restriction, you have to find someone else."
"There is no one else."
"This is not my problem, this is why you are on-call. I cannot help you."
"This is not my problem, you have been aware of my work restriction for over a week now, I will be in when my shift starts."
Yes, it was a trust issue that happened, and because of the kids, I'm desperately trying to work things out with him. He's a good man at heart, but he when gets an idea in his head, you cannot convince him otherwise. What he believes to be true is the only truth, whether it's actually true or not.
Everything was settled and has been peaceful for months, and now this. I think that it's being brought out by his anger toward other issues right now, and now, when I need to be relaxing and getting ready for this surgery, he's agitating the hell out of me. I'm just so frustrated.
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And to top it all off, I tried a quesarito, and was a little disappointed. Should have stuck with my normal.