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Intro!

Hi ladies! I've been lurking for a couple of weeks and finally decided to post!

I just turned 38 a few months ago, DH is 40 this year. We got married last year but have been together for a long time. 

We've been talking about TTC for a while but just started this month -  we took it easy and just used OPKs to give us an idea of when to try. Our timing was ok, but due to work schedules we didn't get as many tries in as I would have liked. According to my app AF was due yesterday and OPKs went positive on the 13th only. Took a test yesterday and this morning with FMU and both were negative. I'm assuming AF is just being lazy and not showing up yet but I'd really like to get the show on the road so that I can be sure!!

I plan to run out and get a thermometer this weekend to start temping/charting so I'll have a better idea in the future of what is going on. I've been pretty paranoid going in to TTC that it won't be easy for us so hopefully having more information will help to counteract that.

Looking forward to chatting with you all! 
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    Hello, and welcome! Yes-- charting is a great idea. I used FertilityFriend, and love the app. Very easy to log in your temp/sex/CM each day.

    GL!
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    Welcome yes temping is a good idea. I also use fertility friend, I love the app. Good luck on your TTC journey
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    Welcome!  I agree with pps regarding temping, knowing more information is better for me.  Best wishes!
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    Thanks ladies! I've downloaded FF but haven't done anything in it yet. Is it worth it to upgrade to "VIP" access?
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    VIP access gives you a really comprehensive breakdown of your chart.  I upgraded for 60 days i think... maybe 90? Just to see if it's worth it.  So far I think it is.  I just started charting 8/7.  I'm on CD42 now sadly, but hoping something gives soon so that I can get a full cycle in.  ( didn't start charting until CD20 (when i got my thermometer).  Best of luck to you!

    Married April 13, 2013

    TTC #1
    38 years old
    1st BFP 11/11/14 (EDD 7/24/14)
    1st loss 12/22/14
    Off Loestrin FE 24 since 6/9/14
    Irregular, short LP, low progesterone
    Diagnosed with PCOS Feb 2015
    Started IVF April 2014
    1st retrieval May 2015 - 30 retrieved, 29 fertilized, 1 normal
    2nd retrieval June 2015 - 27 retrieved, 22 fertiziled, 1 normal
    Implantation date August 12, 2015
    BFP 8/24/2015

    ALL WELCOME

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    Welcome

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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    All welcome

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    Welcome, and good luck! I've been charting for a while but just started temping and I think it'll really help me feel more in touch with what's happening down there. I use Fertility Friend too, but haven't moved to the VIP membership yet. If AF arrives in a few days (I suspect she will), I may upgrade for next cycle.

    I have that same creeping pessimism, even though we've really only started TTC actively this cycle. I picked up an OPK to use next cycle (first time) so hopefully that'll improve our chances even more!

    Hope you'll have a short stay on the TTC boards!

     Me: 35, He: 41. Baby #1!

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    Thanks @tmorash hopefully you have a super short stay too!

    PSA - if you go on fertility friend twitter page they have a coupon for the whole year of VIP for $25.
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    I have VIP got it for $25 for the year. I downloaded the app on my iPhone & after a month or so they sent me the promo price
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    Thanks @WinoGrrl and @C_Girlie for the tips! I just upgraded with a Twitter coupon code! Now once I get some more temps and OPK results charted, I'll be feeling super informed!

     Me: 35, He: 41. Baby #1!

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    Welcome!
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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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    Welcome!
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    Welcome and good luck!  I hope adding the temping will make your stay here short and sweet.
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    Me 36 DH 39

    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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    Welcome! I love my VIP membership. 

    I hope that your stay here is short.

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    Welcome!
    *****Signature/Ticker Warning******

    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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    Welcome and best wishes.
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    TTC#1 since June 2012

    Dx: Unexplained Infertility / AMA

    BFP after 4th IUI cycle with Gonal F + Ovidrel on March 2014 | EDD 12/7/14 | MMC on 4/14/14 

    IUI#5 with Gonal F and Ovidrel trigger on 6/6 - BFN

    On to IVF #1 with a new RE. Started Gonal F and Menopur on 8/15.  Added Ganirelix on 8/24. Trigger on 8/26 for ER on 8/28. 8R 7M 3F.  Transferred all 3 on 8/31. BFP on 9/11 | EDD 5/20/15 - Beta #1: 56.7. Beta #2: 97. Beta #3: 1148. Beta #4: 3559. Beta #4: 7678. MMC confirmed on 10/13. D&C on 10/14 at 9w. Confirmed male with Trisomy 14.

    On to IVF #2 in March. CCS Testing on 2 embies. No go. Waiting to start IVF #3 in July. Surprise BFP on 6/14! EDD - 2/20/16 - Beta #1: 121.4. Beta #2: 236.4. Beta #3: 2014.

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    Thanks again ladies - thermometer is purchased and FF upgraded to VIP for the deal price. I figure I'll start temping once AF is done.
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