So I get a message from my ex husband, the guy who verbally and physically abused me, out of the blue after asking me for a divorce years ago he wants me to know he's still in love with me and he can't stop being mad at me because he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and I'm with my current husband. WTF?! We have been divorced for four years and I haven't heard from this guy in years. This is the guy that held a knife to my chest. Then the next thing he says is does my kid sister want to move in with him and rent a room in our old house...... The divorce was so hard on me and I was so hurt now I'm happy and starting to be in a really good point in my life and this. I have no flipping idea where this came from or why its happening now but most of my friends live really far away and I had to share with someone.
That's rough. I'm sure that brings back a lot of bad memories that you've tried to put to rest. Sorry, but the advocate from my job is coming out, but do you feel safe? Would looking into a protective order make you feel more secure? Does he know where you live?
Stay safe and feel free to PM if you want to talk more about options etc.
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I'm so sorry. I have an emotionally abusive ex, and if he contacted me, I'm sure I would feel really unhinged. Glad to hear you're safe, I'll send you good thoughts.
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Stay safe and feel free to PM if you want to talk more about options etc.
I would definitely not engage in any kind of communication with an ex husband, especially an abuser.
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