WTF Wednesday

theholmanherd

As promised

Wtf dad and 'wife'? Once again you've proven yourselves unworthy of respect. Making Abuela cry and trying to tell my uncle and me that you don't ever value our opinions and thoughts. Well, I'm done trying to fix our relationship while you don't find me worthy of your time and respect.

tweetyknicks

WTF SS2...

You claimed you felt hot and sick to your stomach last night once we figure out you're missing an important meeting and are at your mom's instead? She may or may not have food and may or may not help you with anything. Then you show up at our house before 7am, only to hide in your room and fall asleep before we get up and head to work.

Are you really sick or are you lying and hiding again?

Btw, quit being a jerk to your dad, who has spent thousands of dollars to try to save your ass.

kushie77

WTF MIL.  I get that you are bat shat crazy, but you have been told 1 billion + times that you have severe heart and lung disease and need to quit smoking, eat better and exercise.  Well congrats, you have now smoked and laid your ass on the couch eating fast food into a complex open heart surgery with valve replacements.  H is terrified you are going to die on the table and is contemplating moving you in with us to recover after the surgery.  I can deal with your needy, whiny,drama filled antics from afar and in limited capacity, but now they may be under my own roof.  There is not enough wine to deal with her whine.   

theholmanherd

Love tits = support

Chasity08

Thank god WTF Wednesday is here today. I don't know what it is about Wednesdays, but they SUCK.

So my SIL knows a bit about what's going on with our infertility stuff (I guess my DH had talked to her about it and then she has asked me a bit about it. Nothing in detail, but she knows were getting treatment and she now knows were doing injects, etc...). So she texts me today to ask when my next Dr appt is, we're talking about how expensive it can be, she tells me her friend is getting fertility treatments and has had 3 IUI's and none of them stuck....and what is the next text she sends me?

"Dh and I are talking about maybe start trying again. Maybe's we'll start this month since you're getting your IUI. Wouldn't that be exciting to be pregnant together?!"

I lost it. Bawling in my car. There are so many things wrong with that text. I immediately came back here to lurk on the board to feel better but then had to write it all out.

Ugh. Is work over? I need a drink. Stat.

Chasity08

NariaDreaming said:

WTF coworker. She has NO sense of personal space. If there's a stray hair on my dress, she'll pick at it. If there is something in my hair, she'll groom me. 

Get the fuck out of my space

No. No No No No NO. I HATE people being in my space. I would get white girl crazy on that co-worker fast. Don't touch me.....stranger danger....all of that.

Hollowvic

Perfect timing, I'm getting laid off WTF????

theholmanherd

Hollowvic said:

Perfect timing, I'm getting laid off WTF????

NO! I'm so sorry! (((HUGS)))

Champs28

WTF SIL

No I do not want to spend hours listening to your ridiculous first world problems that could wait be solved if you had common sense. Some of us have real effing problems over here like the black hole of despair known as IF

Pintobean39

My WTF isn't nearly as bad as some of the ones I just read, I think we need a group (((((HUG)))))

WTF???? I thought today was Thursday, and not Wednesday. Can my days to my FET get any more fucking slower??? I started IVF#1 5-3 and still haven't gotten to do a ET.

DharmaChick

NariaDreaming said:

WTF coworker. She has NO sense of personal space. If there's a stray hair on my dress, she'll pick at it. If there is something in my hair, she'll groom me. 

Get the fuck out of my space

Ick. That would make me incredibly uncomfortable! I would actually start running away if she came toward me!

TTCBabyJ

Wtf: 8/20
BFN this morning and what would have been my mom's 63rd birthday. She passed away of breast cancer three years ago and it still feels like yesterday. I miss my mommy.

DharmaChick

WTF Facebook - Why do you keep showing me ads for maternity clothes?!

theholmanherd

TTCBabyJ said:

Wtf: 8/20 BFN this morning and what would have been my mom's 63rd birthday. She passed away of breast cancer three years ago and it still feels like yesterday. I miss my mommy.

My mom passed about 3 1/2 years ago and I still get caught up in flashbacks with certain triggers (like her birthday). I had a moment the other day when my dad and his new wife were being assholes and I kept thinking damn, if I get a BFP, it's not even going to be fun to tell them because I don't give a shit what they think. And then, of course, I grieved the loss of the moment to tell my mom my BFP because I was on a downward spiral at the moment. Alcohol helps. HUGS!

Champs28

Bug hugs @TTCBabyJ‌

Waterlily234

WTF hugs all around  =((

tweetyknicks

@TTCBabyJ I'm sorry you have to face that. I lost my dad to brain cancer four years ago at 51. Though the pain has dulled with time, I still miss him. There are some things I know I won't forget and many I hope I won't forget. I remember him every time I wish I had a solid person to ask for advice. My mom is very supportive, but she does not have the solidity and reason that my dad did. (Which is why he and I butted heads so much. I'm just like him :-) )

Pintobean39

@TTCBabyJ‌ I'm so sorry (((hugs))) and for all those that have lost a parent.

My mom died almost 15 years ago from colon cancer when she was 48, I'm not sure if I'd say it gets easier I think you just find other ways to deal with it. My mom died right before Christmas (her favorite holiday) and I still don't like Christmas, but I've finally managed in the last couple of years to put the ornaments on without crying. I still hold resentment when others spend time with their moms, but not nearly as bad. I still hate Mother's Day, but at least I don't cry all day anymore.


**** preg and loss mentioned ****

Last year was the hardest because I was pregnant and due on my moms bday, so I knew it would be my rainbow baby but I still lost it. I found out on the anniversary of her death it was another girl. Sometimes I feel the universe is just out to get me.