So my husband of 5 years (together 11) decided he was going to leave me 2 weeks ago. He has a new girlfriend, but swears he's not doing it because of her. He swears he hasn't cheated and looking at phone bills, they were only talking 2 weeks prior to his leaving. I guess only he and her will really know the truth. I feel lost, betrayed and disrespected, but I know I can do this without him.
I have an appointment to meet with my lawyer this week, and he had his appointment yesterday. He thinks that it's okay for us to have 50/50 custody with every other week. I swear it's not going to happen. I'm fighting for me as custodial with him having visitation. I need some pointers!
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How old are your children? Why do you disagree with 50/50? Not saying you are wrong for feeling that way, but wondering your thoughts behind it.
Wow-- so sorry you are dealing with this.
I don't have much advice RE the custody, because we are not quite up to that yet, but there are a bunch of really supportive ladies here that are more well versed than I.
Good luck to you!
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
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Problem with this is there is no way to enforce this.
I don't have any advice regarding custody because I'm currently pregnant and won't be doing anything custody/visitation until LO is born. That being said, I refuse 50/50 because he doesn't even ask a thing about this baby.
Good luck to you and welcome!