I had a dream I was PG....

KirstenAlecia

Seriously, last night, dreamt I was pg......ugh. 

We are NPNT, but with that said AF better show her ass up here in 4 days. Im not ready. 

sorry....i know thats probably sounds horrible with so many having issues TTC....but i need a couple more months before we actively TTC and i wasn't paying attention much this month as far as where i was in my cycle and we did the deed in my estimated FW like 3 times....

Thanks for letting me panic here ladies.....im sure I'm not but the dream made me feel a little weird. 

Anyway go ahead make fun of me....lol

Im out of here....i have a beach session and will "see" you all latah! 

URMySunshine77

You are the only one who wants to see AF. ;-)

Enjoy the beach, lady. :-)

KirstenAlecia

URMySunshine77 said:

You are the only one who wants to see AF. ;-)

Enjoy the beach, lady. :-)

This is true!!!!!! 

Its so weird.......

katie0919

I was NTNP with my son, and when it happened it was only the 2nd month of NTNP....and we had only had sex on ONE day during the middle of my cycle. It was completely drunken, barely even remember it sex, too. But, it worked. I cried (not in a good way) when I got my BFP. I wasn't sure I was entirely ready either....but it only took about 12 hours for me to let it sink in and then be ECSTATIC. 

Truth be told, you're never really "ready" for kids. They turn your world upside down (in the best way possible).

I'm not exactly sure I'm ready for a 2nd, but I can tell you after 8 months of trying, I would give ANYTHING for AF to not show up (said as someone who is on CD 1 as we speak).

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mattandlora

(losses / children mentioned)

My first pregnancy was a TOTAL oops. We were shocked, then got used to it, then lost the pregnancy, then we were devastated, then we started TTC. We caught the egg first try and had a healthy baby boy.

Fast-forward one year after his birthday....NTNP and had a BFP. DH was ready, I wasn't. Then we lost it again. I felt guilty - like my not-excitedness caused the miscarriage. Now I'm on my first cycle after the loss again. We're both full-go with TTC this time. And of course I'm DPO #13. After a few BFNs earlier this week, plus a lessening of my "symptoms," I fully expect AF in the next 2-3 days.

hooligans4

I think you need for it to happen accidentally so you don't have to make the decision to start trying. Am I right!!!!! I know it's a scary step for you.
Have fun at the beach shoot.

kindershlitz

Accidents can be good!

Tell us more about the beach shoot!

lgsdesigner

Hey-- if it happens, it happens! What's a few more months? 

Side note: Last time I dreamed vividly I was pg...I was. POAS!

Davie813

If it reassures you, I have those dreams all the time (including a weird one a few months ago where I was informed that I wouldn't conceive until August 25--very specific) and they have obviously not come true yet. FX you get the result you truly, deep down, want. Hope the shoot goes well!

KirstenAlecia

lgsdesigner said:

Hey-- if it happens, it happens! What's a few more months? 

Side note: Last time I dreamed vividly I was pg...I was. POAS!

NOT PEEING ON A STICK!!! lol 

actually ladies its not just the terrifying thought of ACTUALLY having a wee one...I mean I am terrified. I wasn't my hubby to be a dad....but I'm terrified truly terrified. 

@Hooligans4 you are probably right about it being an accident being ideal....the decision would be made wouldn't it....lol.

I am concerned health wise too. I weigh too much to get PG right now. I currently have elevated blood pressure. It will go down when i weigh less. I have been on this roller coaster before. At just 10 pounds heavier than i am now..........cause i have been there.....my blood pressure skyrockets to somewhere around 170/90 and it had my dr worried. So pregnancy weight.....i can just see where that would take me. 

That said by some miracle and I was PG (cause lets face it its harder to achieve than we realize) then i would need to drop some weight immediately. Which I'm sure would be fine........ok I'm going to just not think about it unless AF doesn't show on Sunday.

@Kindershlitz my beach shoot was so fun! Heard of Trash the Dress??? This was a trash the Cap and Gown Grad session.....lol. It was so fun!

URMySunshine77

I had a dream last night that my middle sister told my mom and me that she was pregnant. I really, really hope that is a good omen. She is in the TWW and I have to restrain myself from badgering her. What a gift if we got pregnant in the same month!

C_Girlie

Good luck, I had that dream last month. AF showed up & here I am TTC still

KirstenAlecia

URMySunshine77 said:

I had a dream last night that my middle sister told my mom and me that she was pregnant. I really, really hope that is a good omen. She is in the TWW and I have to restrain myself from badgering her. What a gift if we got pregnant in the same month!

oh how neat that neat that would be!! Crossing my fingers and toes for you!

thirtyninetoforty

I never dream about pregnancy - mine or others - but after reading all these posts I'm sure my sleep will be flooded with pregnancy dreams! 
@KristenAlecia - You will be a GREAT mom!  I am overweight but I don't have high blood pressure issues.  If the IUI doesn't take this time, I will be doing some serious cracking down on shedding pounds.

HeathernSteven

Wow for the past few nights I have been dreaming of holding a NB the child all squished up in my arms cuddling at my neck, so very vivid! Not dreaming of being pregant just holding the wee one....so odd!

We are still NTNP, well lets say he is NT I do try to time our romps around the right time

Sorry I haven't been on lately its easier to not check up on everyone since we are NTNP

KirstenAlecia

So far that was the only dream i have had....none after that.....and AF was due yesterday and she has not arrived yet.

Im not thinking anything of it just yet though.

Davie813

OK, last night I had a dream I was pregnant, too--and I was sure the father was this guy I went on one real-life date with back in 2009. 

So I was getting all ready to go start a new life with him, and getting kind of excited about it, when I stopped to think that I would miss my husband, and he would probably miss me and DD, which made me very sad.

Then I remembered that my husband probably was the father after all, since he was the one I'd been, you know, having sex with.  And I woke up seriously relieved.

The subconscious is a very strange place.

Anyway, @KirstenAlecia, any sign of AF?

KirstenAlecia

Davie813 said:

OK, last night I had a dream I was pregnant, too--and I was sure the father was this guy I went on one real-life date with back in 2009. 

So I was getting all ready to go start a new life with him, and getting kind of excited about it, when I stopped to think that I would miss my husband, and he would probably miss me and DD, which made me very sad.

Then I remembered that my husband probably was the father after all, since he was the one I'd been, you know, having sex with.  And I woke up seriously relieved.

The subconscious is a very strange place.

Anyway, @KirstenAlecia, any sign of AF?

That is one CRAZY PG dream.

No, AF is officially late.

No I have not POAS 

Im terrified to.....and to be totally honest. She has been off a day or 2 before and I do not feel I am PG. 

I was PUKING my brains out with DD and can't even take BC pills cause they make me sick so I know really that doesn't mean anything but i think i would know. 

No symptoms nothing. So I really think AF is just delayed for some unknown reason. 

If i go more than 10 days late I will POAS :P

Or if i start getting any symptoms that are not AF related. 

Davie813

Well, good luck.  I hope she gets here, if that's what you want!

KirstenAlecia

Davie813 said:

Well, good luck.  I hope she gets here, if that's what you want!

I really need to get this weight off before i TTC at least some of it. To make sure all would go smoothly. Low Carbing as we speak!