December 2014 Moms

Our boys were born at 19 weeks. So lost

My water broke for baby a at 8 on Saturday night and we went immediately to the emergency room and they did nothing and wanted to send us back home to "let these things pass" as in they weren't going to do anything for our boys and wanted me to go home and have a miscarriage. We drove back to our dr and hospital and they admitted us immediately. They did ultra sounds and both babies still had heartbeats and fluid around them so they gave us hope that they would be ok. I got an infection that caused me to get 105 temp and baby a (Lucas) didn't have a heartbeat anymore and they told us baby b (Ryan) was also going to be infected and there was nothing we could do to save him. We watched the ultra sound when we saw Lucas not moving and Ryan right next to him with a strong heartbeat and wiggling all over. It's breaks my heart to know I couldn't protect my babies the way they deserved to be. I would have given my life to save them. I can't even believe we lost our babies. We love them so much and were so ready to welcome then into our lives.
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  • I am so, so sorry that this happened to you and your family.  I can't even imagine what you're going through.  Please know that it wasn't it your fault and that you protected them the only way you could.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • Oh. No no no. I am so heartbroken for you. I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. I am so sorry.
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  • Oh honey I can't even find the words to express the sorrow I am feeling for you and your family. I am so sorry that you are experiencing this devastating moment, and I pray that you find peace. Sending thoughts and prayers to you, your husband, and your precious angel babies. (((Hugs)))

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  • I'm so very sorry for the loss of your precious boys. Many T's&P's heading your way as you go through this tough time.

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  • I wish I had anything to say that would help. I can only imagine how incredibly painful this is. I'm in tears. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family. Please be kind to yourself. You did everything you could.
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  • Oh no. I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you must be going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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  • I am so very sorry. My heart breaks for you. I will be thinking of you, your family and your beautiful baby boys. 
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  • So so sorry to hear this! Thoughts and well wishes for you and your family.


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  • This is absolutely heartbreaking. I am so sorry for your losses... You're in my thoughts and prayers.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. ♡♡♡♡
  • I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you.

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    I'm incredibly sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to you and your family. 

    In loving memory of Baby Hufflepuff and all of D14's Angel Babies

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  • I'm so so sorry for your losses.  I don't even know what to say. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.   Please take care of yourself.
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  • Oh no - I'm so, so sorry.  I'm praying for you and your family.

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  • Oh my goodness, I am so very sorry. I can't even imagine and I will be praying for you all. :(
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  • I'm so very sorry for the loss of your precious little boys. I can't begin to imagine the pain you and YH must be feeling right now but it was not your fault. Please try not to blame yourself.
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  • I'm so sorry for your losses!  My heart breaks for you and your family. 

     

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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss. This is so heartbreaking
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  • So sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain you must be going through. Take care of yourself as best you can. My sympathies.
  • I am so so sorry. :( Lots of hugs, thoughts, and prayers to you and your family. I just can't imagine.
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  • Oh my gosh. I am so sorry for your losses. I will keep you in my T&P's.
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  • There are no words for a time like this. I am so sorry about your loss.
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    I'm am so incredibly sorry. Be strong and know you're in my prayers


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  • I am so very sorry for your losses.  You and your family are in my thoughts.

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  • I'm so sorry! Please know that your sweet babies only knew a world of comfort and love. Reach out to your family and especially a support group for comfort!
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  • My heart is broken for you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of prayers for all of you!
  • So awful.  I'm so sorry for your losses.  I hope you are able to take care of yourself as best you can.  As PP have said, I hope you will be able not to blame yourself.  My thoughts and prayers are definitely with you during this horrible time.  Again, I am so sorry.
  • (Hugs) you and your hubby are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry.
  • I am so so sorry. Sending T&Ps to you and your family.
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  • I am so sorry :-(
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  • I am so so sorry. :( this breaks my heart for you. praying for your and your family.
  • There are no words. There really aren't. I am so so sorry. I don't even know what to say. A loss like that has to be one of the worst things. I am praying for you and your boys in heaven.
  • My heart is broken for you and your family. I am so sorry. Sending many prayers to your family.
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    So very, very sorry :(
  • I am so so sorry. This is terrible.  
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    Getting some more testing and trying to figure out what the issue is before FET in December, started acupuncture on 11/10, RLP and some other BW nothing major to report except slightly high Prolactin. Prolactin was slightly high when I started with my RE and I already had an MRI which was Neg.  Endo biopsy=negative.  WTF is wrong with us???
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm so sorry that you lost your precious boys. You and your family will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers.
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