DOR and AMA
2/12-5/12: 4 IUI cycles = all BFN;
7/12: DE IVF # 1 (with ICSI)- 20R, 16M, 14F, 5DT of 2 blasts; 6 frosties = BFN;
Lupus anticoagulant initially high, then found to be normal on hematology consult;
Follow up testing in September all clear;
Started synthroid for "high normal" TSH;
FET # 1- late October 2012- BFP on FRER; beta # 1- 21(low), beta # 2- 48 (still low), beta # 3- 132, beta # 4- 1,293; beta # 5- 5,606; last beta- over 100,000. First u/s 11/21- heard heartbeat
12/12- Officially an OB patient!
Level 2 ultrasound at 20 weeks shows vasa previa and VCI
Referral to MFM and mandatory c section for delivery
Beautiful baby girl born at 34 weeks
Finally home after 15 day NICU stay!
Trying for sibling: FET # 2- May 2014; beta 5/31, BFN
FET #3, early July 2014; beta 7/14, BFN
DE IVF # 2- August 2014; 14R, 13M, 11F, 5dt of 2 blasts (3 AA), 5 frosties = BFN
FET #4- December 2014, yet another BFN
Dr. KK work up shows borderline uterine blood flow, elevated NK cells, and MTHFR mutation (homozygous for c677t)
Added baby aspirin, prednisone, supplements, Metanx, and intralipids
Switched to large clinic for final attempt; had endometrial receptivity testing in January; FET March 2015 = yet another BFN
Likely OAD- NBC
Re: Mandarin for babies and tots
Spanish? Yes, yes, yes. Sign my kid up for classes, immersion programs, all of it. Here in Texas becoming fluent or semi-fluent in Spanish is 1. not that hard 2. easy to practice and 3. useful for nearly any job or occupation.
I grew up in a Mandarin speaking country (I am not Chinese) and can usually follow conversations in Mandarin because I just got used to hearing it all around me. That being said, it is an extremely difficult language to read and write because you have to memorize all the characters/words, not to mention distinguish between the various tones. I really don't think it's practical to teach it here because unless you live in a predominantly Mandarin speaking area or have at least one parent who is well versed in it, you are not going to be proficient in it. I also don't think you need to learn it to do business in Asia - a friend of mine moved to Taipei for work and she gets by even though she doesn't speak Mandarin.
Schools who do this are likely just trying to set themselves apart by offering a language that isn't commonly offered at other schools. Or maybe they are trying to attract more Chinese parents.
The only benefit that I can really see is supposedly if you do not hear certain tones before the age of three, it is almost impossible for you learn them later. This is why some non-native English speakers have issues with 'R' for example. Or when I was China, apparently I could not master Xi Xi, whatever sound was correct I was not producing it.
I would be ok with some exposure, but if language was a big deal for me I would have my kids start really trying to learn a love language first. It seems to me that the people I know who are bi-lingual pick up additional language much easier.
We are about to start DS in a Daycare that offers Mandarin now and they start very young - as soon as the children get out of the infant room. When I questioned them on choice of language they said they change it up every few years and have done Spanish most often.
It does sound pretentious - and truthfully if my 2 year old learned proper English I would be happy - but second languages of any kind are fine by me.