Ok, as a FTM I find myself easily getting very nervous and worried about the huge impending change that having a baby will bring. And I think we spend a lot of time discussing the more sobering realities of what's ahead. But I was lurking over on April 2014 (I love birth stories) and this thread caught my eye:
For the first few weeks they are just so "squishy!". Not a lot of muscle tone, soft baby skin, sleepy eyes... they "wake up" after a few weeks and lose some of those characteristics, so this time I'm going to appreciate it a bit more.
Dh loves the little newborn cries. They make his big man heart melt.
I love having this whole new person to get to know. They all have there own little personalities. They are so soft and squishy. I like when they get hungry and start squishing there face around and doing the "hunger cues". All the little yawns and sneezes. Basically all of it. They are just damn cute.
Tiny yawns, tiny lips, sweet smells, eetsy beetsy leetle feetsies, soft skin, and the fact that he will be MINE ALL MINE and no one can ask to have him back, or judge me for snorting his skin.
Their snuggles for sure and the fresh baby smell. Charlotte tends to just smell like whatever she has eaten and spilled now. When they first start to recognize you and smile when you come into view.
The baby yawns, the little startle reflex they do when they're sleeping, when they start opening their eyes and reaaaally look at you. It was 3am our first night home with DS and his big dark eyes just locked with mine and I felt such an intense bond with him at that moment.
OMG I'm so thankful for this thread. All of the details about child birth have made me generally feel anxious and panicky about having a baby but this thread brings me back from the dark side. I'm so excited to experience all of these things!
Also, I don't know if there is anything more adorable than seeing a dad holding his baby. I can't WAIT to see DH (who has ZERO baby experience) holding this LO
After long nights of interrupted sleep feeding the little one ... DH would go to work in the morning and I would fall back asleep in bed with DD (scandalous I know). But then I would wake up and see her little sleeping face next to me. It's one of my favorite memories of maternity leave.
I'm generally not a fan of the newborn phase, but my hand to God nothing has ever smelled as wonderful as DD did fresh out of the oven. Newborns smell so good! I also can't wait to rock this new one to sleep. I love rocking babies. I'd still rock my 3 yo if she wasn't so dead set on being a "big girl"!
I loved the first look. I will never forget DD upside down straight from the oven staring right at me. She didn't cry right away, she just locked eyes with me. I tear up just thinking about that moment. The other one was when they held up DS and we saw the goods. DH squealed "it's a boy"! I love all the first moments but I really get excited around 12 weeks because they start interacting more and seem to see you as a human to love and not just their milk cow lol.
Can't wait to see what the little one looks like, can't wait to feel her fingers and toes. Praying to God I can see her eyes and meet her. Every day I feel her moving around in there, it's a gift, but that moment I can see her will make all the vomiting, aches, and pains so worth it. All these posts warm my heart. I say stay in there as long as possible, LO, but I'm so ready to meet you!
I can't wait to kiss her little toes off!!! I love this post! It makes it more real I believe, when you start thinking about how many wonderful things are coming our way!
Snuggle cuddles on the boobies. Their smell!! This was DS2 after he was born. And watching them with my husband. They LOVE to nap on man chest.
You look fantastic in this picture!!! I can only hope I look that good after delivery!
Thank you for all the sharing of wonderful memories STMs. I can't wait to meet Logan and smell him, count his little fingers & toes, look at his beautiful little face and snuggle with him on my chest. I can't wait to fall in love
BFP#1: 08/30/12 EDD 04/30/12 m/c 09/04/12 6wks BFP#2: 01/27/13 EDD 10/06/13 missed m/c 02/25/13 9wks BFP#3: 10/30/13 EDD 07/05/14 Our little dude was born on 07/10/14 @ 2:19p
Meeting them for the first time is really a surreal feeling, one I wasn't completely prepared for. I will say, after he was born, I got really uneasy whenever he wasn't in my arms or when someone else held him. I spent 9 months with just me and him and when he came out, I had to share him.
Snuggle cuddles on the boobies. Their smell!! This was DS2 after he was born. And watching them with my husband. They LOVE to nap on man chest.
You look fantastic in this picture!!! I can only hope I look that good after delivery!
Thank you for all the sharing of wonderful memories STMs. I can't wait to meet Logan and smell him, count his little fingers & toes, look at his beautiful little face and snuggle with him on my chest. I can't wait to fall in love
Thank you! I'm pretty certain this was day 2 in the hospital. I was showered and put makeup on
Re: This Thread from April 2014 Makes Me Excited!
11.2011 - DS1
02.2013 - loss at 6 wks
06.2014 - DS2
10.2015 - loss at 12 wks
03.2017 - DD
I love having this whole new person to get to know. They all have there own little personalities. They are so soft and squishy. I like when they get hungry and start squishing there face around and doing the "hunger cues". All the little yawns and sneezes. Basically all of it. They are just damn cute.
SQUEEEEEEEEEE
Three months is forever.
We have our "Irish Twins"
DD born 8/7/2013
DS born 7/28/14
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We have our "Irish Twins"
DD born 8/7/2013
DS born 7/28/14
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13 yr old boy with ASD, ADHD and PICA, 11 yr old boy, 3 yr old Girl, & baby Girl.
Love reading all these posts. :x
My son was just so so beautiful to me. I can't wait to see what this ladybug looks like, to smell her newborn scent & to nuzzle in her fuzzy hair.
You look fantastic in this picture!!! I can only hope I look that good after delivery!
Thank you for all the sharing of wonderful memories STMs. I can't wait to meet Logan and smell him, count his little fingers & toes, look at his beautiful little face and snuggle with him on my chest. I can't wait to fall in love
BFP#1: 08/30/12 EDD 04/30/12 m/c 09/04/12 6wks
BFP#2: 01/27/13 EDD 10/06/13 missed m/c 02/25/13 9wks
BFP#3: 10/30/13 EDD 07/05/14 Our little dude was born on 07/10/14 @ 2:19p