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tomsangel10811tomsangel10811 member
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Good evening ladies, I am new to this site and I wanted to introduce myself. My DH and I are married for almost 3 years now and we got pregnant last September, and found out we had a miscarriage in November. I went in for my 8 week sonogram and everything was fine, the heartbeat was strong and baby was good. I went back for my 11 week checkup and there was no growth or heartbeat. When the doctor came in I knew immediately something was wrong. When we got the bad news we were devastated. I thought to myself how are we even going to get through this? But through much prayer and support from family we are ok now and trying again. I am also very scared because I don't want to go through anything like that again. I know I am new but I wanted to say hello and tell you ladies a little about my story. 
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  • longcat07longcat07 member
    i'm so sorry for your loss.  i've only been around her for the past week or so, but these ladies here have been so supportive and helpful.  i wish you didn't have to be here but i'm glad you found this place.
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    BFP#2 EDD 12.07.2014, natural mc 04.09.2014 at 5w3d
    BFP#3 EDD 01.14.15, RAINBOW baby girl born 01.16.2015

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  • polevaultRNpolevaultRN member
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    I'm so sorry for your loss, hun. Welcome to the board. ((Hugs))

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    BFP #1 8.6.2011 EDD 4.7.2012 DS1 born 3.30.2012
    BFP #2 1.21.2014 EDD 10.1.2014 natural m/c 1.30.2014
    BFP #3 4.30.2014 EDD 1.10.2015 DS2 born 12.31.2014
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    Sorry for your loss.
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • Denise91980Denise91980 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.((hugs))
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    BFP #1 1/1/11 EDD 9/10/11 dx:no hb DNC on 2/2/11
    BFP #2 12/28/11 natural m/c on 2/6/12   BFP#3 2/16/13 dx:ectopic on 2/27 (given methotrexate) HSG 6/13-all clear BFP#4 11/18/13 natural m/c on 11/23  IVF #1 (Natural IVF Cycle) May 2014- Cycle failed (embryo did not make it to blast) BFP#5-7/26/14 GROW BABY GROW    IT'S A BOY DUE 4/5/15!

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  • FrenchteachermamaFrenchteachermama member
    So sorry for your loss, welcome.  



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    TTC #3 since June 2013
    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14
    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss. I think many of us can identify with your feelings. I've also only had one negative experience. Wishing you all the best and welcome.
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • rubysirubysi member
    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome.

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  • aklengakleng member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #1 12/31/13, EDD 09/12/14, MMC Discovered 02/20/14 (10w6d) Est. Loss @ 8-9w, MC 02/22/14
    BFP #2 06/25/14, EDD 02/28/15 Grow Baby, Grow!
    It's a BOY!!
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  • tfno2tfno2 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I think your fear is normal - DH and I had the same conversation two nights ago. We're so excited to start trying when we're allowed to again, but so scared at the same. time. I hope your stay here is short.

    TTC#1 7/2009, BFP 8/2010, EDD 3/29/11, DD born 3/30/11

    TTC#2 10/2013, BFP 3/10/14, EDD 11/22/14, m/c 4/10/14

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  • kittymeowbarkkittymeowbark member
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome and GL.
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1~  EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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  • LaRomana09LaRomana09 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.  (((HUGS)))

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    TTC since March 2012 
    BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
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  • masterofallcheesemasterofallcheese member
    so sorry for your loss

    Missed M/C natural cycle 10/2013

    DX PCOS 3/2014

    2 cycles Clomid 50 mg + Ovidrel + TI

    1 cycle Clomid 50 mg + TI - no response stair-stepped to Clomid 75 mg + Ovidrel + TI

    1 cycle Clomid 50 mg + Ovidrel + IUI

    1 cycle Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Follistim + Ovidrel + TI

    1 cycle Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Folistim + Ovidrel + IUI

    1 cycle Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Follistim  - no response, repeated Letrozole 7.5 mg + 150 mg Follistim + Ovidrel + IUI = success! 12/2014

    Beta 1 - 15 dpiui, 324, Beta 2 - 17 dpiui 750. Twins!!

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  • taberbtbtaberbtb member
    I am sorry for your loss. This board is full of wonderful and supportive women. I hope your stay here is short and sweet. Welcome.






     


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    BFP #1 04/28/13 Its twins! EDD 01/08/2014 MMC confirmed 06/27/13 D&C 07/17/13

    BFP#2 05/19/14 EDD 01/30/2015 Please be our rainbow!

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  • ikrystalikrystal member
    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome. 
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  • stefugestefuge member
    I am so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. Hopefully your stay will be short.
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    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
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  • stephy1221stephy1221 member
    I am so sorry fro your loss. Welcome to the board.
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    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

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  • tomsangel10811tomsangel10811 member
    Thank you ladies. It means a lot to be able to talk to other women about the same issue. I am doing a lot of praying and hope that will help as well. I know it might sound weird but does anyone have any suggestions on how to be " okay" with this situation?
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  • BackstreetPixieBackstreetPixie member
    So sorry for your loss. ::hugs::
    -Megan


    Started dating Hubby May 17 2005. Married since Aug 20 2011 
    Me:30   Hubby:31
    TTC since May 2012 
    HSG Dec 2012 Fill no spill on left side, right side normal (most physically painful experience of my life..)
    Metformin Started May 2013
    PG#1: BFP 10-21-13. EDD 6-17-14 mmc 12-9-13 m/c occurred with cytotec on 12-11-13 
    PG#2: BFP 07-25-14.  EDD 4-5-15   *Hoping this is my rainbow*
    Diagnosed with PCOS, Hypothyroid,IBD/UC, (UC in remission as of July 2014)
    *I will always love you Fetey the first.* 
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    ALL WELCOME!



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  • jap618jap618 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
    --AL always welcome--
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  • heathersf11heathersf11 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. (((Hugs)))
    DH diagnosed with testicular cancer 6/04/10
    Married DH 8/1/11
    7/21/13 SA poor morphology/ low count
    BFP #1 11/18/13, EDD 7/22/14 
    MC Blighted Ovum 12/4/13 @ 7wks
    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • LilNugget19LilNugget19 member
    So sorry for your loss ((Hugs)). I hope your stay here is short and sweet and you find the support you need!
    BFP #1 2/26/14 EDD 11/4/14 MMC 4/1/14 D&C 4/2/14
     BFP #2 5/24/14 EDD 2/3/15 MC 6/12/2014

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  • LiaMadi1LiaMadi1 member
    ((hugs)) so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board and I hope you find some support and peace while you are here.
    "Once you are real, you can't become unreal again.  It lasts for always." ~ The Velveteen Rabbit

    *8.3.13*  mc @ 6-7 weeks {natural mc at 12 weeks}
    *3.14.14*  mc @ 5-6 weeks DnC {blood clotting disorder discovered}
    *8.7.14* mc @ 6 weeks DnC {uterine septum removed March '14)
    *3.17.15* mc @ 7 weeks DnC {genetic testing & meeting with a new RE in Jan '15}
    *8.31.16* mc @ 8 weeks DnC {genetic testing, new medications upon next pregnancy}
    *7.17.16* praying everyday for my rainbow baby {progesterone supplements, blood thinning injections}


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  • kate6214kate6214 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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