Lately my parents have been telling me I need to leave LO with family members or friends so that she gets used to being with other people and not to be totally attached to me. She's 11 weeks old right now and has only stayed with my parents once while DH and I went out for supper. I haven't felt the need to leave her with anyone else (she's been alone with DH a few times while I ran errands) and I'm just trying to enjoy all the time with her I can. I take her to play groups, to "play dates" with friends and their LO's, to other family members houses, out running errands, etc...so I'm socializing her lots and I feel by doing that she won't be shy to go to others as she gets older.
Has anyone else had people tell them this? Or any STM's experience LO's being shy because of not staying with others? I know every baby is different but just wondering what other's experiences have been. Thanks!
Re: Not leaving baby with others will make her shy ?!
I lost my train of thought because she's making me look at the vacuum. When I remember I'll edit my post.
Right now is her time to bond with you, so bond away!
I've left DD with my mom a couple hours a week since she was 2 weeks old because I'm in school and she still hates when I leave her. Some of it just depends on the temperament of the child too.
If it were me, I wouldn't worry about what they are saying to you.
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My son has been left with my MIL & my mom. He's fine with my mom or dad, but freaks out at the in laws. No idea why, it's just the way it happens.
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That being said, your parents prob just want alone time with their granddaughter and don't have actual basis for their opinions ha ha