Yesterday I got the call from my mom, my grandfather passed on Sunday. I don't really know how to cope with this rite now, i'm stuck at home alone all day witch just makes everything worse digging deeper and deeper into my own thoughts. i was so happy to be entering my second tri, and now its just turned bittersweet, I couldn't go visit him last month because of an appointment and now i feel guilty. i just don't know how to deal with the emotional side of this, one min I'm fine and the next i just break down the extra hormones definitely don't help. i don't know how to be exited about this pregnancy now, my grandpa was an ob/gyn and now i don't know how to be happy about going to my appointments when its just going to remind me of him every time.
I have an ob appointment next week and really don't want to break down while im there. anyone have some advise on what kind of coping methods i can use before i go and while im there?
Re: dealing with loss of family member
Talking about your feelings and grieving in a safe and loving environment can really be a helpful step toward healing. Much better than trying to work through it on your own.
Also, I would be upfront with your doctor right away. When he asks how you are doing, tell him not great. That your grandfather, who happened to be an OB, passed away this week. He'll understand and may even be a great source of support!
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Hang in there ((hugs))