My name is Brandy and I am new to this forum. I have tried a couple of different forums but I think my issues best fit the Secondary IF forum. My DH and I have been ttc for almost two years now. The DH has been tested and is perfectly fine. My OBGYN is not quite sure what to do with me as I ovulate regularly and have 28 day cycles. He wants me to have a HSG test done and then from there he is in contact with a RE and they are talking like they are going to be very aggressive with my treatment. I just wondered what to expect with the HSG test and what kind of things to expect with an aggressive treatment plan. Thank you and I am very sorry that any of us have to be on this board. Who knew the second time around would be so difficult?
Welcome and I guess if I'm being honest those of us who had IF issues the first time probably guessed that those issues would occur the second time around too. sorry just giving you a hard time cause I need some snark in my day.
As far as the hsg goes it's usually not too painful and doesn't really take that long, I know some have had less than fabulous experiences, but I think most are fine. I had mild discomfort during the procedure and cramping afterwards and so I would plan to go home and relax afterwards if possible. As far as aggressive treatment that could mean almost anything based upon your specific situation. So my advice would be read up about IUI's and maybe even IF (although usually other things are tried first) and medications like clomid and fish type drugs so you can develop your own opinions, in this process the best thing you can do is be your own advocate and know as much about your options, side effects and possible outcomes. Good luck!!
TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck
Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man. Born 12/2/11
TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended
Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good. Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.
I totally second what @designer303 said about being your own advocate and totally educating yourself. Doctors are wonderful but a lot of times they want to go by the book, and not consider as much about your specific situation. You need to know what's going to work for you. That includes financially and emotionally in addition to medically.
As far as the HSG goes, mine was really bad. It didn't last very long, it was more painful than being in labor! But the pain stopped as soon as it was over. I would recommend taking Tylenol before you go, or even ask your doctor if you can give you something a little stronger to take before you go in. It's totally worth it to do, giving you answers is really important.
Good luck and hope you get more answers and know where to direct your research.
Happily Mrs. C
start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
Hoping holistic approach works!!!
BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!
Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
Back on metformin Aug 2013
Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw,and red raspberry leaf
DS weaned in April 2014
Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.
Planning medicated cycle end of summer. FX I get KU before then!!!
Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man. Born 12/2/11
TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended
Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good. Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.
I'm sort of in your boat, needing to do an HSG too. my RE said to take tylenol ahead of time too. i imagine it can't feel good passing a catheter through your cervix. i never went into labor with DS so my cervix has only dilated when i had to take cytotec and fuck, that shit hurt. i am terrified it will feel like that. great, now i've probably scared you too. sorry.
BFP #4 2/18/14. EDD 10/30/14... Ruptured ectopic with L tube removed & D&C 3/7/14.
BFP #5 7/27/14. EDD 4/9/15... m/c @ 5w4d.
IVF #1 Oct 2014 - antagonist protocol: 9R, 7M, 5F. 3dt of 3 Grade 2 embies. BFN.
IVF #2 Jan 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle. Converted to IUI #1. BFFN
IVF #2.1 March 2015 cancelled due to dominant follicle.
BFP #6 (SUPRISE!) 3/19/15. EDD 11/30/15... CP at 4w2d.
IUI #2: Clomid + Follistim = 3 follies. BFN.
IVF #2.2 May 2015 - horrible response to micro lupron flare protocol: 3R, 3M, 3F. 3dt of 2 Grade 3 embies. BFFN.
BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).
the universe can fuck off.
"You are
overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you."
-lastsliverofhope
I can never remember the which one is the HSG, uterus or tubes? I know the other is SHG. Either way the one ine uterus was no biggie, and I just had some leakage from the water. The tube one was just a little crampy during, and then for a couple hours after. Crampy but it wasn't awful for me. No one ever has the same outcome. Good luck!
The HSG was the worst test for me in terms of serious cramping, but thankfully it only lasts about 2mins, so even if it's painful, it's nothing you won't be able to tolerate. Depending on whether or not your tubes are open, you can expect much more testing. Mostly b/w.
Good luck.
Spontaneous pregnancy #1 DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
732973 Clomid Cycles
2 IUIs
3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016 Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3 Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
I can never remember the which one is the HSG, uterus or tubes? I know the other is SHG. Either way the one ine uterus was no biggie, and I just had some leakage from the water. The tube one was just a little crampy during, and then for a couple hours after. Crampy but it wasn't awful for me. No one ever has the same outcome. Good luck!
HSG= Dye in tubes
SHG = Water in Ute!
How many times do I gotta tell you dis, Lucy?
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Spontaneous pregnancy #1 DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
732973 Clomid Cycles
2 IUIs
3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016 Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3 Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
My HSG was easy. The worst part was getting the catheter in, and it just felt like a little pinch and short, quick cramp. As soon as it was in, I felt nothing.
She struggled to get the catheter in, then it fell out and she had to do it all over again.
My HSG was three years ago and just last week I had an SHG. Same deal expect it was in office, not at the radiology dept at the hospital.
IVF/ICSI #1 - BFP, DS born Jan 2013
IVF/ICSI #2 - BFP, DD born Feb 2015 IVF FET - BFP, due April 2017
I can never remember the which one is the HSG, uterus or tubes? I know the other is SHG. Either way the one ine uterus was no biggie, and I just had some leakage from the water. The tube one was just a little crampy during, and then for a couple hours after. Crampy but it wasn't awful for me. No one ever has the same outcome. Good luck!
January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this! June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
November 2010- FAILED FET! BS! January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world! November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs) April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs. FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP BABY BOYVINCENT!
We can't wait to meet you! Conception: Potato Love!
Thanks everyone for the advice. It helps tremendously. I am one of those people that plan ahead and like to know what kind of situation I am walking into.
Re: HSG?
As far as the hsg goes it's usually not too painful and doesn't really take that long, I know some have had less than fabulous experiences, but I think most are fine. I had mild discomfort during the procedure and cramping afterwards and so I would plan to go home and relax afterwards if possible. As far as aggressive treatment that could mean almost anything based upon your specific situation. So my advice would be read up about IUI's and maybe even IF (although usually other things are tried first) and medications like clomid and fish type drugs so you can develop your own opinions, in this process the best thing you can do is be your own advocate and know as much about your options, side effects and possible outcomes. Good luck!!
TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck
Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man. Born 12/2/11
TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended
Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good. Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.
Back with RE as of January 2014...
5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy
April 2015 IVF#1
5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!
Oh and I'm a major Harry Potter Nerd
As far as the HSG goes, mine was really bad. It didn't last very long, it was more painful than being in labor! But the pain stopped as soon as it was over. I would recommend taking Tylenol before you go, or even ask your doctor if you can give you something a little stronger to take before you go in. It's totally worth it to do, giving you answers is really important.
Good luck and hope you get more answers and know where to direct your research.
TTC#1 May 2009- July 2010 on our own with no luck
Started with RE in August 2010, dx with unexplained IF and then finally our 3rd IUI cycle using Follistim and Trigger resulted in our wonderful little man. Born 12/2/11
TTC#2 Never really prevented, but were careful early on as Dr. reccomended
Surprise BFP 12/16/13, started progesterone immediately as first numbers came back low, but betas were good. Progesterone wasnt enough. Natural MC 12/24/13.
Back with RE as of January 2014...
5/27/14- Chemical Pregnancy
April 2015 IVF#1
5/13/15- BFP, please stick LO!
Oh and I'm a major Harry Potter Nerd
BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).
the universe can fuck off.
"You are overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you." -lastsliverofhope
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
Spontaneous pregnancy #1
DD1 July 31, 2011
Trying for #2 since Oct 11
Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!!
She struggled to get the catheter in, then it fell out and she had to do it all over again.
My HSG was three years ago and just last week I had an SHG. Same deal expect it was in office, not at the radiology dept at the hospital.
IVF FET - BFP, due April 2017
June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS.
November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS! February 2011- lost twin. BS.
SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!
November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
BABY BOY VINCENT!
We can't wait to meet you!
Conception: Potato Love!
#1 DS Tanner Ray 10/13/1998
#2 Natural M/C 03/2014
#3 DS Beckett Jameson 05/14/2015
#4 EDD 05/12/2017