Hello everyone. I am wondering what to do. My bf has a son who is coming to visit for the first time. We have his daughter almost full time, so she clearly has her own room. However, we are moving soon into a 3 bedroom home and with a new baby on the way I automatically planned for that to be his/her room. However, now with his son coming to visit... I'm curious as to what to do for him. He's 3 years older than his sister and while this year I am able to give him his own little space before decorating for a baby room.. where does he sleep once baby is here? I know it sounds crazy, but I also don't think I need a room for him full time when we only have him 2 months out of the year.
Thoughts? Ideas? I want him to feel like he's got his own space and home with us.. so I don't know how to make that happen.
Re: Step Kid Bedroom
Otherwise, he can share with LO later as long as he and his things have a permanent place in that room. I mean having a permanent bed (lots if kids like futons and that would work week for this situation) and dresser and closet space. I can see putting some if his things up after he leaves, but mange sure they are all back in place before he arrives.
Since everyone will still have their own space this summer, it would probably be a good idea to include the older kids on this decision. You and BF come up with the possible arrangements you are both willing to provide, and let the kids give you their input with the understanding that the adults will ultimately decide but want their opinions.
I don't know what the situation is regarding you saying this is the first time the son is coming to visit, but if he has never stayed with his dad before, then the arrangements for these two months might just be pretty important.
But SD and DS shared until they were 5 and 2 respectively, and I had no objections them continuing to share if we had been unable to find an affordable 3br to rent. DS also never woke SD up. She sleeps like a log.
I would think any situation would work. I would incorporate both children in the decision and then the decorating, though. Not every kids gets what they want in every family. Not everyone can have their own room all the time.