So my hub and I have been talking about wanting kids ever since we got married ha! We got married very young (8 years ago), finished up college and grad/law school together, and now we've both been working for a few years. I'm 28, he's 29.
Once we started working, we had a "5 year plan" but now we're cutting that short by one year and TTC this summer. It was sudden, and I wondered if it was a rushed decision, but it's been a good 3 months, and we strongly believe it's the right time. The thing is, we have like too much fun together, truly he is my best friend. We share similar interests in almost everything. We travel so much all the time.
I'm super excited, but also very terrified of having children. I'll miss our current freedom and fun. But I get so emo when I think of having a child with him, it makes me so happy.
I wanted to ask, what was your relationship like after having a baby? Do you still do things together?