Hi second or third (or more) time Moms,
I want to know if you have any advice to give on the most important things to talk about/ work out before a baby comes. What sorts of things did you kick yourself for not dealing with before hand? I'm wondering about stuff like; how the chores get shared, appropriate ways to deal with frustration, how he can make your life easier and vice versa....
I'm not 100% sure what the questions are because all I ever hear is "Having a kid changes everything" but I have no idea how exactly it will change it. I feel like I have this precious time left when it's just the two of us and we can work on stuff without being interrupted by a screaming child with a poopy diaper.
There it is mamas, lay some wisdom on me :)