With my DS I went into labor at 39 weeks when my water broke. After I got to the hospital my contractions slowed and they put me on pitocin. * I also had a Epidural, which could have slowed my labor. My DS heartbeat fluctated from 80-180, and the doctors were worried that the cord was wrapped around his neck. So I had an emergency c-section after being in labor for 13 hours. It turns out he had a short umbilical cord and wasn't even in the birth canal. I only make it to 7 cm. This time around my OB is letting me decide whether to try for a VBAC or schedule my c-section. I am worried that my labor won't progress and I'll end up having a csection anways. Per my OB VBAC better for me that scheduled, but scheduled csection better than emergency. My recovery from my csection went pretty well. I am not planning on having any other children. On the fence, they're are advantages & disadvantages to both. Any feedback or past experience would be helpful. Thanks ladies.
I debated with this question too... Every pregnancy and every labor is different, so what you experienced last time may not be what happens this time. I labored for nearly 2 days, pushed for 3 hours and my body gave up. My contractions flat out stopped, so to c-section I went. I'm very afraid the same thing may happen again... but... I'm going to VBAC because I don't want to have to recover from a c-section while taking care of a baby AND a toddler. However, I am prepared for the possibility of another c-section. I'm giving myself 2 hours of pushing, and if this baby isn't out, I'll just request a c-section and get it out. So, at least I know I tried... and who knows, it may just work. Good luck with your decision.
I'm believe I have to make this decision too. It still may be made for me, considering some medical things that I'm trying to figure out. While I'd love a definite time for baby's birth (last time things went on and on up to an emergency CS), I don't want to recover from another CS. More so, I don't want to labor and then have an ECS, it was NOT a good experience for me. But the labor wasn't so great either- disorganized and went on for days without any progression.
A while ago, my OB office didn't do VBAC- that made things easy. I found out they do now and I'm the crunchy non-meds kind- don't want them in my body. I'm nervous about it all with the way the scar feels and the fact that I have a connective tissue disorder. I think if I was really anxious, I could talk to them or MFM and push for a RCS. I have no idea what to do, I almost wish the decision was made for me.
I am sitting here thinking about this too. Here is my 2 cents about it. Each pregnancy is different, maybe this baby will have a longer cord and be in a better position. Not trying and having a CS with a 18 month old to run after with the recovery far out weigh the low risk of uterine rupture. I mean you can rupture when you have never had a CS.
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I had two vaginal births. My first was 22.5 hrs with pitocin and an epi that wore off right before pushing, and I pushed for 1.5 hrs. My second was 10 hrs, with pitocin, an epi that was wonderful (I could still move my legs, but the contractions didn't kill me) and I pushed 3 minutes. My third daughter was born via c-section due to placenta previa. I am really leaning towards a VBAC this time as long as everything is ok (no placenta previa). I really fear having to run around after a 23 month old, while taking care of a newborn, and recovering from a c-section.
I had a planned c section as mybaby was breech . It went smoothly . i was breastfeeding in a half hour or so . Bonded well. Recovered fairly easily etc. I can't decide. I am pretty scared of a vaginal delivery . I am also scared if an emergency. C section which seems so much worse . I think I might want to do a planned c section instead of v bac because I'm scared of vaginal delivery and of emergency c section.
While I am concerned about another emergency c-section (DS was cord presentation- very emergency), I found it extremely difficult to care for a newborn while healing from a c-section. MH did everything except for breastfeed for basically two weeks. It is major abdominal surgery and that's what it felt like. I can't imagine having a newborn and a toddler and barely being able to function.
That said, I know several people who had fairly easy c-section recoveries (many on this board), and several people who had terrible vaginal birth recoveries. I just know that for me, I'd really like to have the chance to NOT have surgery before launching into life with 2u2.
GL on your very personal decision.
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Thank you everyone, but my decision ended up being made for me by my placenta. At my 20 week u/s they found I had placenta previa, so even if it moves, I am no longer a good canidate for a VBAC. Good luck with your own decisions & births. Hope everything goes as smoothly as possible for you.
I know you have to have a C-Section, and I believe that if you must you must. I am not sure if this is a post only for women who are considering a VBAC, but thought I would share my experience since many C-Sections are necessary (some are, though). I had a C-Section with my first baby (I honestly believe my doctor was annoyed I pushed for three hours and that he wanted to get it over with.....It was around the holidays. He never even came in to see me, just told the nurses I was going to have a C-Section). The second time around I decided to do a HBAC (Home Birth After Cesarean), mostly because no doctor would do a VBAC. I took classes, found a midwife, and did all of my research. I LOVED my home birth experience! It was the best thing for me and from all of my research, any amount of pushing is great for baby in the long run. I know not all are canidates for a VBAC, but if you are and are really considering, I highly suggest taking a Bradley class...even if you don't intend to do it without drugs, it's a great class to really prep you for a vaginal birth. Good luck to you all!!!
Why wouldn't you be a good candidate for VBAC if your previa moves? I was also diagnosed with a complete previa at my anatomy scan, and my docs are fine with VBAC if it moves.
I'm at least going to try for a VBAC. I know I would regret it if I didn't. Not all failed VBACs are emergency c-sections. A life threatening ruptured uterus is very very rare, and you would most likely have a RCS for something else, like failure to progress or fetal distress.
Re: VBAC v. Scheduled C-Section
I'm very afraid the same thing may happen again... but... I'm going to VBAC because I don't want to have to recover from a c-section while taking care of a baby AND a toddler. However, I am prepared for the possibility of another c-section. I'm giving myself 2 hours of pushing, and if this baby isn't out, I'll just request a c-section and get it out. So, at least I know I tried... and who knows, it may just work. Good luck with your decision.
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A while ago, my OB office didn't do VBAC- that made things easy. I found out they do now and I'm the crunchy non-meds kind- don't want them in my body. I'm nervous about it all with the way the scar feels and the fact that I have a connective tissue disorder. I think if I was really anxious, I could talk to them or MFM and push for a RCS. I have no idea what to do, I almost wish the decision was made for me.
That said, I know several people who had fairly easy c-section recoveries (many on this board), and several people who had terrible vaginal birth recoveries. I just know that for me, I'd really like to have the chance to NOT have surgery before launching into life with 2u2.
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