Do you schedule night time feedings or let LO decide when to eat?
I usually put my LO to bed at 8, then he usually wakes up between 2 and 4 to eat. Some days he'll sleep till 5! 2 and 3 are fine times for a meal because both of us go back to sleep easily afterwards, but 4 gets hard, especially when its multiple days in a row. I work and have to get up at 6, so if he eats at 4, both LO and I have a tough time getting back to sleep. I've considered both giving him his last meal at 10pm, or waking him up by 3am, but I also worry about programming these waking times into his sleep schedule.
I know, I should count my blessings that he sleeps such a long stretch to begin with. I wonder what will give us the best long term success at healthy sleep habits and though I know he often needs the nighttime meal now, he won't need it forever and I don't want him to be "programmed" to wake at a specific time for a meal.