Anyone else planning to do this? I wanted to know at first, but hubby really doesn't and managed to convince me to keep it a surprise. I really can't find out without him knowing, I will never be able to keep that secret for the next several months. We'll be able to find out at my next u/s at the end of this month. I have a lot of people in my life who are surprised by this decision and think I should find out in order to "prepare". Aside from names though, what is there really to prepare for? However, my only real concern though, is registering for clothes. Gender neutral stuff is ok, but a lot of it still looks a little boy-ish. If we have a boy, that's perfect. If we have a girl though, I'm not really a pink frilly kind of person, I'm all for keeping the nursery in neutral colors, but I'd like to have a few girly things. Things on the registry are return-able though....I guess I'm just looking to see if anyone out there is in the same boat as me. Thoughts, pros/cons, etc?